Okay, so I became friends with a boy I met on Myspace in 2008 ( I know it's lame but yeah. ) He contacted me first wanting to be friends and at the time he liked this one girl. I told him as long as he didn't hit on me, I'd be his friend. He wanted advice from me about her and so I gave it to him. From there, we grew into really great friends. We talked on the phone and stuff. He told me he felt connected to me at the time and for some reason, I blocked him for it. I guess I didn't like what he was telling me at that moment because I was going through some major problems and I was out of control. In 2010, he found me again on Facebook and added me and we restarted the friendship again. We webcammed and he was so happy to finally see me in the flesh. He started liking me a whole lot at this time and he had an audition for a college for music. ( I won't say the name because just in case.. ) I forgot about it and he was very hurt. I forgot because I was still going through that mess and had other things on my brain. He was so hurt and he blocked me on Facebook after that. Ever since 2010, I'e been searching him out and I finally found him and added him on Twitter. ( By the way, I'm 22 and he's 20 now. )
He asked for my number, I gave it to him, and then we started texting. We talked about the problems we had with each other from the past and realized we had a lot in common. We both finally agreed that we were connected and we've been talking up until yesterday. He told me that he didn't remember the video chat thing which is understandable because I didn't remember a lot of things either. Anyways, he wanted to see me talking and everything instead of in pictures and stuff, so I sent him a couple videos and now, I don't think he finds me attractive anymore because he stopped texting me. My issue is not that he does not find me attractive. My feelings about myself don't come from other people, it comes from within. I think I am in the middle.
Anyways, I never in my life found him attractive, but if me liking him would keep our friendship together, I was willing to just deal with him liking me because our friendship meant that much to me. I contacted him because I guess I thought something would be the same which was a huge mistake now I see.
My real problem and why I am very hurt now, is because he was my friend and from the START I told him not to hit on me. Now that we have started talking again, he doesn't want to speak to me anymore only because he's not attracted to me. Again, I find myself thinking that it isn't fair what he's doing. I never liked him in the first place in that way, so for him to stop speaking to me after we re-connected for the 2nd time, just because he doesn't find me attractive is BS. I've been saying I was over it because I thought I was, but honestly, right now I want to cry. I am trying to push him to the back of my mind but I really liked that boy in a freindship type of way. I've never been able to be just friends with a guy that I bonded with so well, without them liking me. I treasured our friendship though even AFTER he started liking me because I liked his personality a lot. Right now, I wouldn't care if he got another girlfriend or anything. I am just how I am when he met me. He's not even my type, yet he quits talking to me because he's no longer attracted to me.
This is so **** irritating and hurtful. I try to tell myself that maybe we don't need to be "friends" if that's what he is going to do. But even though that is true, I'm still hurt because he was like a best friend. I know we didn't know each other in real life, but we did video chat and talk on the phone a lot for hours.
I don't know how I am going to get over this. :'(
Sorry that I rambled, but I needed to vent this out to someone. All I want is to forget we ever came in contact with each other and forget that he ever existed before.
He asked for my number, I gave it to him, and then we started texting. We talked about the problems we had with each other from the past and realized we had a lot in common. We both finally agreed that we were connected and we've been talking up until yesterday. He told me that he didn't remember the video chat thing which is understandable because I didn't remember a lot of things either. Anyways, he wanted to see me talking and everything instead of in pictures and stuff, so I sent him a couple videos and now, I don't think he finds me attractive anymore because he stopped texting me. My issue is not that he does not find me attractive. My feelings about myself don't come from other people, it comes from within. I think I am in the middle.
Anyways, I never in my life found him attractive, but if me liking him would keep our friendship together, I was willing to just deal with him liking me because our friendship meant that much to me. I contacted him because I guess I thought something would be the same which was a huge mistake now I see.
My real problem and why I am very hurt now, is because he was my friend and from the START I told him not to hit on me. Now that we have started talking again, he doesn't want to speak to me anymore only because he's not attracted to me. Again, I find myself thinking that it isn't fair what he's doing. I never liked him in the first place in that way, so for him to stop speaking to me after we re-connected for the 2nd time, just because he doesn't find me attractive is BS. I've been saying I was over it because I thought I was, but honestly, right now I want to cry. I am trying to push him to the back of my mind but I really liked that boy in a freindship type of way. I've never been able to be just friends with a guy that I bonded with so well, without them liking me. I treasured our friendship though even AFTER he started liking me because I liked his personality a lot. Right now, I wouldn't care if he got another girlfriend or anything. I am just how I am when he met me. He's not even my type, yet he quits talking to me because he's no longer attracted to me.
This is so **** irritating and hurtful. I try to tell myself that maybe we don't need to be "friends" if that's what he is going to do. But even though that is true, I'm still hurt because he was like a best friend. I know we didn't know each other in real life, but we did video chat and talk on the phone a lot for hours.
I don't know how I am going to get over this. :'(
Sorry that I rambled, but I needed to vent this out to someone. All I want is to forget we ever came in contact with each other and forget that he ever existed before.