lostinthelake
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uh where do I even start, first time i've ever done anything like this and i'm judging myself for it right now itself.
So hi, i'm 20..
have problems like every other 20yr old, dad was an ex narcotic, mom raised me and my sibling alone, she had it rough and I appreciate her allot, dad hadn't worked for more than 16 years and came over and fought allot, mom has almost no friends except for the people she works with, sometimes when i upset her she would get angry and vent her frustration out on me, i'd never get that at the time, and i'd hate her for it, but now i truly understand. I started talking to my dad again recently and things are getting better for him and I. he's working as a rehab councilor and is doing well for himself. My mom and my sibling keep teasing me for being in contact with him because before I used to be so mad at him, and just wanted to like delete him out of our lives forever. I don't blame them for being that way though, he has put my family through honeysuckle. But I feel like if I don't forgive him now I might not get the chance to and I don't have many people in my life I can afford to lose.
I have 4 close friends, we play a game together called world of Warcraft, this game is my stability, its also what glues us as a group as well. My friends know I have self esteem problems cause i'm shy by nature and a pretty nice guy, who'd give an arm and a leg for them. They keep teasing me about my skin tone and looks, but i know they don't mean harm and i suppress my feelings cause i love and appreciate them to much. When I was a kid I wasn't depressed at all, I went out played sports mingled and was social with so many people, I had girlfriends and I could be called a jerk by dating multiple girls sometimes, and then they'd hate me for it after and i'd never learn my lesson. Then as time flew by I started getting more serious in relationships and started treating a girl right, but then like karma they'd do the same thing to me.. and its only till i lost them did i seriously understand to appreciate what I had and miss it so much. I started feeling more lonely, I started dating online, to avoid hurting someone, or being a victim and getting hurt, that turned out to be even worse since I got even more heartbroken when it ended and online relationships are so hard. I got even more depressed and started crying some nights just to see where I've landed from being popular in school, to being labeled gay so much so one of my old best friends wanted nothing to do with me cause people thought we we're gay. I'm a 100% straight he and everyone knew it, but guess I became easy target as i fell down the social ladder, then we started getting poor and shifted to a studio apartment, made life for me even worse, couldn't have much of a social life when your restricted to one room u share with two people. Just all these problems balled up and I haven't dated someone in a year now cause I'm so scared and have commitment issues, I don't even have anyone to talk to cause my friends only talk about the game or their girlfriends and I have no one, nothing, sometimes I contemplated suicide, But i'm to scared to even think about it anymore. I'm a really decent guy, really nice and I know I shouldn't be feeling this way, I want to feel normal again, I have no life goals, no ambitions, I just sit and play World of Warcraft all day and try to be as normal as possible in that game, but I feel i'm pretending because I don't think I'm really okay, and I'm sad and I hope someone reads this big wall of text and can at least tell me everything's going to be okay, If I hear it enough maybe I can believe it. I swear I don't know.
I love the world, I hate my life.
So hi, i'm 20..
have problems like every other 20yr old, dad was an ex narcotic, mom raised me and my sibling alone, she had it rough and I appreciate her allot, dad hadn't worked for more than 16 years and came over and fought allot, mom has almost no friends except for the people she works with, sometimes when i upset her she would get angry and vent her frustration out on me, i'd never get that at the time, and i'd hate her for it, but now i truly understand. I started talking to my dad again recently and things are getting better for him and I. he's working as a rehab councilor and is doing well for himself. My mom and my sibling keep teasing me for being in contact with him because before I used to be so mad at him, and just wanted to like delete him out of our lives forever. I don't blame them for being that way though, he has put my family through honeysuckle. But I feel like if I don't forgive him now I might not get the chance to and I don't have many people in my life I can afford to lose.
I have 4 close friends, we play a game together called world of Warcraft, this game is my stability, its also what glues us as a group as well. My friends know I have self esteem problems cause i'm shy by nature and a pretty nice guy, who'd give an arm and a leg for them. They keep teasing me about my skin tone and looks, but i know they don't mean harm and i suppress my feelings cause i love and appreciate them to much. When I was a kid I wasn't depressed at all, I went out played sports mingled and was social with so many people, I had girlfriends and I could be called a jerk by dating multiple girls sometimes, and then they'd hate me for it after and i'd never learn my lesson. Then as time flew by I started getting more serious in relationships and started treating a girl right, but then like karma they'd do the same thing to me.. and its only till i lost them did i seriously understand to appreciate what I had and miss it so much. I started feeling more lonely, I started dating online, to avoid hurting someone, or being a victim and getting hurt, that turned out to be even worse since I got even more heartbroken when it ended and online relationships are so hard. I got even more depressed and started crying some nights just to see where I've landed from being popular in school, to being labeled gay so much so one of my old best friends wanted nothing to do with me cause people thought we we're gay. I'm a 100% straight he and everyone knew it, but guess I became easy target as i fell down the social ladder, then we started getting poor and shifted to a studio apartment, made life for me even worse, couldn't have much of a social life when your restricted to one room u share with two people. Just all these problems balled up and I haven't dated someone in a year now cause I'm so scared and have commitment issues, I don't even have anyone to talk to cause my friends only talk about the game or their girlfriends and I have no one, nothing, sometimes I contemplated suicide, But i'm to scared to even think about it anymore. I'm a really decent guy, really nice and I know I shouldn't be feeling this way, I want to feel normal again, I have no life goals, no ambitions, I just sit and play World of Warcraft all day and try to be as normal as possible in that game, but I feel i'm pretending because I don't think I'm really okay, and I'm sad and I hope someone reads this big wall of text and can at least tell me everything's going to be okay, If I hear it enough maybe I can believe it. I swear I don't know.
I love the world, I hate my life.