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tehdreamer
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Every time I find someone who seems sane enough (which seems to be my only major criteria anymore: sane enough not to murder me and mine) to consider a relationship with, I always run into the same problem; Getting noticed.
They seem to be able to easily whine to me about what type of girls they are looking for. And I'm like... "Hello? Have we met? That's me you're talking about, buddy!" or at least that's what's going on inside my head. In reality; I drop hints, but they never get noticed. I try out my lame flirting skills, which fails. And when I finally get enough guts to actually be direct, it's too late and they're running off with Miss Perfect.
I just don't get it. It makes me feel invisible and non-datable. Sure, I have the personality traits they keep harping about wanting, but I don't have the physically fit wrapper to make it a complete package. I'll never be seen as anything other than "One of the guys" by anyone I'm interested in.
The most I've had are a couple of "I would date you if"s.... I don't know wtf I'm supposed to even do with those. I'm tired of the "game" of dating. I wish we lived in a society where people valued people for who they really are and not because they lucked out on better genes than everyone else.
Or maybe I just have a really awful personality and I just don't know it. Either way, I'm screwed.
They seem to be able to easily whine to me about what type of girls they are looking for. And I'm like... "Hello? Have we met? That's me you're talking about, buddy!" or at least that's what's going on inside my head. In reality; I drop hints, but they never get noticed. I try out my lame flirting skills, which fails. And when I finally get enough guts to actually be direct, it's too late and they're running off with Miss Perfect.
I just don't get it. It makes me feel invisible and non-datable. Sure, I have the personality traits they keep harping about wanting, but I don't have the physically fit wrapper to make it a complete package. I'll never be seen as anything other than "One of the guys" by anyone I'm interested in.
The most I've had are a couple of "I would date you if"s.... I don't know wtf I'm supposed to even do with those. I'm tired of the "game" of dating. I wish we lived in a society where people valued people for who they really are and not because they lucked out on better genes than everyone else.
Or maybe I just have a really awful personality and I just don't know it. Either way, I'm screwed.