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Poueff said:
Sci-Fi said:
Poueff said:
Sci-Fi said:
SophiaGrace said:
Really? I've never heard of this before.

When you are a guy, yes sadly it is true. Other guys will think there is something wrong with you.

Actually I think it's 14 now-a-days...:rolleyes:

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Oh that is so encouraging to read...:rolleyes: Keep it in your pants until you are at least 25. :D

I am and planning to stay a virgin for the next two years or so. It's just a thing for me. I'm not "proud" of being so,but when I stop being one (next few years,me hopes),at least I know I did something right... not just getting in the way of the slutty fury of some of my friends and have "me being an idiot" attached to it.

It's true what I said though.

Not really. At your age I had my first boyfriend. :rolleyes2: and all he did was give me a carnation on valentines day.

 
SophiaGrace said:
Poueff said:
Sci-Fi said:
Poueff said:
Sci-Fi said:
When you are a guy, yes sadly it is true. Other guys will think there is something wrong with you.

Actually I think it's 14 now-a-days...:rolleyes:

12

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Oh that is so encouraging to read...:rolleyes: Keep it in your pants until you are at least 25. :D

I am and planning to stay a virgin for the next two years or so. It's just a thing for me. I'm not "proud" of being so,but when I stop being one (next few years,me hopes),at least I know I did something right... not just getting in the way of the slutty fury of some of my friends and have "me being an idiot" attached to it.

It's true what I said though.

Not really. At your age I had my first boyfriend. :rolleyes2: and all he did was give me a carnation on valentines day.

At my age a girl in my class gave her bf her first blowjob. No offense,but from what I heard most people over 18 say and when I compare it to what I saw,heard and did,things are changing radically.
 
Poueff said:
SophiaGrace said:
Poueff said:
Sci-Fi said:
Poueff said:

Oh that is so encouraging to read...:rolleyes: Keep it in your pants until you are at least 25. :D

I am and planning to stay a virgin for the next two years or so. It's just a thing for me. I'm not "proud" of being so,but when I stop being one (next few years,me hopes),at least I know I did something right... not just getting in the way of the slutty fury of some of my friends and have "me being an idiot" attached to it.

It's true what I said though.

Not really. At your age I had my first boyfriend. :rolleyes2: and all he did was give me a carnation on valentines day.

At my age a girl in my class gave her bf her first blowjob. No offense,but from what I heard most people over 18 say and when I compare it to what I saw,heard and did,things are changing radically.

One girl. Man no one should be sexually active at that age.
 
SophiaGrace said:
One girl. Man no one should be sexually active at that age.

When I was growing up, from 14 onwards, talks of blowjobs in the park or being rammed doggie style was a frequent source of female discussion on every monday morning.

I felt I was far behind the curve even at 16.

Incidentally I've seen the escort now, it was a very good and helpful experience and answered more questions. But I don't think further sessions is going to be cost effective. I've seen an escort before, but there was still things I was unsure of.

It turns out when the escort is sufficiently attractive and acting in a sufficiently arousing manner, I do not have problems with an erection. I also do not have a problem with premature ejaculation, infact, my problem is the polar opposite. Which is a problem nonetheless, but a better problem.

I also discovered what kissing is like, the escorts before would not do it "GFE/Girl Friend Experience" is an optional activity. Kissing is um, less sticky than expected. At least half of it isn't anything to do with the mouth, but body positioning and touch/holding. I did not dribble or bite or conduct a dental examination, so I do not consider I kissed badly. It was suffciently interesting, but not so much that I wouldn't think it would be better with a person whom I had "real" feeling for.

I think what I might aim for in the future is to find a temporary girlfriend to try out things at leisure then move on. I do not intend to stay with a first girlfriend. What would be best for training purposes is if the relationships finished at increasing intervals. ie, 2 month, 6 month, 1 yr etc.

But I do need to set out a timetable where I can do lots of what the purpose of PickUpArtist camp teaches one to do. Pick up and screw girls you see in clubs.
 
^^^Dear god...

Being in a relationship isn't a ******* science with timetables and experiments and logical progression of hypotheses...

It's not cold hard math.

I kinda pity you the fact that you're probably never going to experience the wild, uncontrolled joy of true passion and love. Chemistry.

Like I said... it's not a ******* scientific inquiry, man. :/
 
Badjedidude said:
^^^Dear god...

Being in a relationship isn't a ******* science with timetables and experiments and logical progression of hypotheses...

It's not cold hard math.

I kinda pity you the fact that you're probably never going to experience the wild, uncontrolled joy of true passion and love. Chemistry.

Like I said... it's not a ******* scientific inquiry, man. :/

Success isn't necessarily the same thing as happiness. And I never said my goal was happiness. Successful people often have a void inside that drives them and may never be truly happy.

I may be no happier at the end of my odyssey, but if successful, I will have had sex with lots of girls than if I didn't start on the odyssey.

And that really is all I can at least reasonably hope for.
 
You're setting your bar pretty low you know? I think you are worth much MUCH more than that. Having sex is not as primal a thing as you think, it can be described as something that unites two people. While it may be pleasurable in the short term, if you do not understand or know yourself, you could do irreperable damage to your self-esteem and your psyche. I know you will do as you please no matter what another person says, but if I can have any - even a little influence - please, protect yourself while you are out there, physically and emotionally. For the sake of your own future.
 
Estrios_Vega said:
You're setting your bar pretty low you know? I think you are worth much MUCH more than that. Having sex is not as primal a thing as you think, it can be described as something that unites two people. While it may be pleasurable in the short term, if you do not understand or know yourself, you could do irreperable damage to your self-esteem and your psyche. I know you will do as you please no matter what another person says, but if I can have any - even a little influence - please, protect yourself while you are out there, physically and emotionally. For the sake of your own future.

By "taking power" over other girls you lose self-esteem? Wouldn't it be the actual opposite? o.o
 

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