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Hello, I have never participated on a thread, or forum before but feel like I have to reach out. Please allow me to explain. I am the type of person, and in the position where people always come to me for assistance.

These days I feel terribly empty. I am not depressed, but unloved and isolated.
I do not have any friends, partners, and my family, is not a close one.

We all live invisible seperate lives and no one is there, when you need them.
To explain the isolation I have felt over the years. If someone where to put me in solitary confinement, I would shrug my shoulders and continue to live.

I posses good, social and communication skills. But for whatever reason I feel the sense of community has been lost in the Western World. I get tired of ringing helplines... just so that I hear a voice talking back to me.

I honestly cannot remember a time when somebody gave me any affection or appreciation for who and what I am, and I basically am getting to a point in my life when I am starting to ask questions like.

I am a deserving person of company, friendship, or love, why do I feel people will not connect with myself even when I try with them?

I have seen alot in my life, as we all have and I love people so much and would do anything. I am the type of person that would give the shirt off his back to a stranger that was doing it tough.

It just sometimes is difficult to feel unappreciated, and unnoticed, thats probably not the right word. A more precise word would be unloved or I cannot seem to find that connection that you get with people anymore.

I have been living this life for many years now, and I am noticing that I cannot live on hope any longer...

I just need a break... and someone to obviously just to reach out and assist myself with some real emotional comfort. I cant honestly remember even the last time I had a hug, or anything like that, and I am not over exaggerating.

I need help and some suggestions, I am getting desperate
 
Welcome to the forum. There are some very nice folks here, who would be happy to talk to you. Also, for some real time interaction, check out the chat room. It's the FIRST chat link on the forum main page.

Again, welcome. :)
 
Sorry you're going through that or feel that way.

I've been there and done that...
Isolating myself was the worst thing I could had done to myself.
Yes..I felt exactly the sameway you felt.

I got so tire of tiring of trying to figure everything out.
I got tired of trying to sort out people that care about me
from the people that wanted to used me. Espeacially if
it was so close to home or under my own roof.

For a while..living in my own little world was okay.
No chaos, no dramma...no this way or that way.
I needed that time out from the rat race and the idealism
of society...Everywhere i looked. I thought humanity was
one big fucken lie.

I started talking to people on this site...it was a bridge
i needed...Just someone to talk to or listen to me.
I didn't think anyone cared enough to listen to me or
hear any of my problems. I also had trust issues.
I took small steps. Yes..just hearing a vioce other
than my own helps a lot. Nalee did that for me..
I'm so grateful she came into my life.

I'm making progress..as I journy out into real life.
I still feel people can really care less oneway or the other.
I'm met lots of people within the past 90 days.
Most of the people are nice..in passing or inneractions.
I've gone out to dinners with people 2-3 times already.

I've yet to really met someone close or willing to get to
know me closer...I also know ...I must love myself
through all of this. Inspite of it all , I try to keep a positive
attitue and enjoy my life oneday at a time.

I still have my moments today. Sometimes I'll still break down and
cry..That's okay..i feel what i feel. I'll go through what I need to
go through to get well.

I've been well before...so i knew what it was like.
I'm actaully a happy go lucky person. I used to hop out of bed everyday and jump for joy.
i don't lack communication or inneraction skills...I just gave up on life.

I'm willing to try live again..

Errr..I have a phyco PMing me and hurassing me at the moment...lol
I'm practicing my tolerance and patients...:p
Trying to take the good with the bad...Accepting life on life's term.
It'll all come out in a wash...trying not to take anything too seriouse or sweat the small stuff.
It's all small stuff...lol Poeple will drive me crazy if i let them...I choose not to let people get
to me today. I don't lack sorting skills...lol It's like that in real life too...so it's all good to me.
 
welcome to the forum here i am!

sorry to hear about how you are feeling, but there are heaps of people on here who like to chat, either through the forum itself or on msn / aim etc, and can maybe help or just be that friendly ear to listen :)
 

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