Suntory
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I recently moved homes, leaving behind everything and hoping to start over, in a way. I moved jobs too, and get on okay with the people down here. Nothing phenomenal, but decent.
Problem is they all obsess over going out for "massive nights" at clubs etc. not all the time, but that's literally all they do as a group. And I hate clubs. I never really enjoyed them but used to go along anyway, and had some fun with my Uni friends.
I drink very rarely now, and have come to hate getting drunk and feeling like crap the next day, so much so that I have no wishes to 1) get drunk and 2) go out into town. Partly too I worry way too much about not fitting in on a night out here. I've never been someone who floats around clubs pulling every girl in sight either - something distancing me further from the guys here.
So I end up struggling to make excuses. Work next day, tired etc. And another potential source of friends slowly fades away.
Problem is they all obsess over going out for "massive nights" at clubs etc. not all the time, but that's literally all they do as a group. And I hate clubs. I never really enjoyed them but used to go along anyway, and had some fun with my Uni friends.
I drink very rarely now, and have come to hate getting drunk and feeling like crap the next day, so much so that I have no wishes to 1) get drunk and 2) go out into town. Partly too I worry way too much about not fitting in on a night out here. I've never been someone who floats around clubs pulling every girl in sight either - something distancing me further from the guys here.
So I end up struggling to make excuses. Work next day, tired etc. And another potential source of friends slowly fades away.