Well I'm 18 and just about to have my gap year before heading on to university. However during all this time I have not had a girlfriend, not had a close friend who was a girl, or really had any close contact with a girl at all.
I think that this all stems from a fear of rejection. I absolutely hate people laughing at me so for a lot of my life instead of having fun i've sat back and tried to look cool to impress people. This meant that for a long time I had no close friends at all.
The thing that really haunts me is a post gcse trip with friends to Newquay, during that time I got drunk and pulled a couple of girls, one of which was also drunk, completely unlike me. Now I can't even talk to a girl without anyone shouting out a comment like "oi mike, workin your charm" or commenting on how I drug then rape girls, leading to even more embarrassment.
I thought I'd finally moved on from this but yesterday we had our leavers prom. It wasn't a couples thing so few people went together, but of all the girls there not one of them spoke to or even acknowledged me.
This coupled with my appearance and complex about my height means I'll probably never be able to talk to anyone properly, and die alone in later life.
Comments?
I think that this all stems from a fear of rejection. I absolutely hate people laughing at me so for a lot of my life instead of having fun i've sat back and tried to look cool to impress people. This meant that for a long time I had no close friends at all.
The thing that really haunts me is a post gcse trip with friends to Newquay, during that time I got drunk and pulled a couple of girls, one of which was also drunk, completely unlike me. Now I can't even talk to a girl without anyone shouting out a comment like "oi mike, workin your charm" or commenting on how I drug then rape girls, leading to even more embarrassment.
I thought I'd finally moved on from this but yesterday we had our leavers prom. It wasn't a couples thing so few people went together, but of all the girls there not one of them spoke to or even acknowledged me.
This coupled with my appearance and complex about my height means I'll probably never be able to talk to anyone properly, and die alone in later life.
Comments?