fuzzybutt
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Recently my sister and my dad have been talking to me about my brother. He's only 16 but he seems to have the same issues I faced his age just a bit worse. I still face these issues but anyways...
Anxiety, loneliness, trouble talking to people. Now at his age and all through school I was pretty social. More than him. The only thing was that after puberty talking to girls was difficult and I had trouble trusting friends after being betrayed and bullied by people who I thought were my friends. I also almost never hanged out with anyone and still don't but I'm working on that. But even at his age and staying home all day I did chat with my friends online. I've never seen him do that all and he spends a lot of time on the computer too.
Now as an older brother I realize I can listen to him and give him just a bit of advice. But I can't exactly help him completely because even at 22 I still face these issues. I realize we could spend more time together but I feel there's a big age difference between us.
So is there anyone here who's dealt with this? How to be an older brother when you can't help yourself at the moment. When you don't have the same assertion and aggression to get things done in life? When you don't have any experience with life, love, etc?
Anxiety, loneliness, trouble talking to people. Now at his age and all through school I was pretty social. More than him. The only thing was that after puberty talking to girls was difficult and I had trouble trusting friends after being betrayed and bullied by people who I thought were my friends. I also almost never hanged out with anyone and still don't but I'm working on that. But even at his age and staying home all day I did chat with my friends online. I've never seen him do that all and he spends a lot of time on the computer too.
Now as an older brother I realize I can listen to him and give him just a bit of advice. But I can't exactly help him completely because even at 22 I still face these issues. I realize we could spend more time together but I feel there's a big age difference between us.
So is there anyone here who's dealt with this? How to be an older brother when you can't help yourself at the moment. When you don't have the same assertion and aggression to get things done in life? When you don't have any experience with life, love, etc?