It's stupid for an old person like me to try to give advice to a young young person like you, but I think the key to finding the perfect crowd of people who you feel comfortable with, accepted by, is to take the one or two things you are really really good at and then sharing them in the milieu where you will shine.... (yeah, I know I'm using 100 dollar words here and it's on purpose, a dictionary should be everyone's best friend, LOL)
So, what do I mean by all that? Well, I can do it best by applying how that worked in my younger years. I had musical talent, I loved to sing, had a great voice, so I joined the chorus with other people that loved to sing, which led to being picked for the smaller more select elite group of madrigal singers which then led to trying out for All Bergen County chorus which led to All North Jersey Chorus which led to New Jersey All State Chorus which heck, who knew I could act too, which led to parts in musicals and before you knew it I went from geeky 15 year old nobody to an accepted, fun loving member of a circle of great friends who all loved what I loved, all did what I did and next thing I know I'm lead singer in a band living my Janis Joplin dreams..... boy life was swell when I was young.
When I was raising my own kids, imagine how disappointed was I that none of them seemed to adore music like did? But I believe every child has to develop some kind of inner talent, so I decided they wouldn't be a couch potato like me, I'd set them up for life long good health with sports as a base line....and I had them running mini half mile fun runs when they were five, then whole miles when they were eight and all that running had them in superior shape for basketball fast breaks and half back stardom touchdowns and soccer stamina full bore head on goals and they had such great circles of friendships with team mates!!! Oh, and yeah, by highschool they found themselves all singing and dancing in the summer broadway show the whole town participated in)
If you don't think you have any one special talent, you'ld be surprised that you might if you just try something you are interested in...when I was young, I was a huge Beatlemaniac, breathed Beatle songs, but my parents hated them and wouldn't give me any money to buy their records....when you are 13 how do you make money? a little too young to baby sit, no, no such things as papergirls when I was growing up, it was still an all man's world, too old to sit at the curb selling lemonade and besides it was winter when the first breath of Beatlemania wafted over America in December of 1963....so I wracked my brain, what could I do? It was Christmas, and a card arrived from my grandpop, decorated as all the Easter, Halloween, bithday cards of my childhood were, inside and back flap covered with adorable pictures, drawings he hand colored in with pastels and pencils and I said to myself, "Hmmmmm, wonder if I have any drawing talent like my grand pop?" so I got out a piece of white paper and took pencil in hand and found a picture of John Lennon in a magazine....and drew him!!! And it was darn good!!!!! Really good!!! And my art teacher wanted it to post on the bulletin board and then half the school saw it and next thing I knew, I got requests for George, Paul and Ringo and now I'm in business drawing the Beatles, making $1.00, yeppers, a whole dollar for an original pencil drawing (or 50 cents for a not quite as nice copy) at a time when it only cost $1.25 for ticket to a movie and bread was 25 cents a loaf and I could buy the latest hottest cutest dress at Bloomingdales for $10. no lie. who knew?
I'm just saying, you have to plumb the depths of yourself, know yourself, all your strengths and capitalize on them, make them work for you, draw you to others who can do those same things you love as they will be drawn to you!!!!! Try it, it really works!!!!