?uest Love said:
soooo. it didn't work out. someone PLEASE help me understand this.
so i asked her to coffee thru texting. and her first reply was...""just wondering would you be down..." sorry i didnt get the rest"....so i asked her again and she said yes. So my buddy before hand tells me that her text msging doesnt work. so i sent her a text in case then call her like an hour or so later. She said she had a bad weekend so she doesn't want to and that she'll get her phone fixed and then text me. She never texted me back and i see her everywhere now and its kinda awkward. Can anyone explain...why someone would waste my time with 3 weeks of texting to shut me down? i rather you just straight up say no to me then keeping my hopes high. I guess a majority of girls are just indirect. =S *sigh* on to the next one....
3 weeks...wtf???
She's trainging you ..man.
Havn't you heard of the 21 days habits??? It takes around 21 days to develope a habit pattern.
A woman wants you to always chase her and want her.
even after you get into a long term relationship.
Especially in a long term relationships... after you hear her burp and fart.lol
Or fresia it...
It's like one of those messed up job that you get interviewed 5 fucken
times. You spend your time and money and all you get is fucken nothing....
So you go find another job, settled into a job...then
wham bam sweet poontang...they call and offer you the fucken job.
Sometimes...that happens. Women do that honeysuckle to me all the fucken
time. Don't even try to figure out women...it'll drive you nucken futz.
All the job or relationship I got or got involved with....Bascaily I got hired on the spot...no bullshit.
All the women asked me out...no bullshit, right into mating season on the fucken loveboat.
Then those other chicks that I asked out or played the dating game stuff or is still in the dating mode...calls me.
So..she's probably just in dating mode...don't trip out or blame yourself or feel bad about yourself.
She just not ready to have a relationship with anyone or one guy. She's allowed to play the field.
Maybe I'm wrong...but whatever the fresia she's doing...don't enternalize it or turn it against yourself.
I have close female friends with relationships problems. They all bascailly
say the samething...they want thier man to want them....be in love
with after all these years.
I bascailly made the same mistakes..Did it in my marriage.
Did it in all of my rerlationships...actaully.
It dosn't happen overnight...
Like after 5 years of living with someone...You'll come home from
a hard day work...you just wanna stair at the fucken wall becuase
you're tired...While she'll wanna go dancing and fresia all night...
You just wanna eat and sleep.
Ok...maybe do some ******* for like 15 mins so you can roll over and go to sleep.
She'll wanna cuddle and talk about bambie or some honeysuckle
She'll get really, really pissed too becuase she spent 3 fucken hours teasing her hair for ya..and you only pulled on it for 5 mins.lmao