EveWasFramed said:
SofiasMami said:
My resolution is I've thrown in the effing towel and I'm not dating or seeing anyone at all in 2014!!
Sorry, that a sore topic for me lately
My resolution still stands though.
-Teresa
I've just decided to make one today - slightly similar to yours, Teresa.
I've pretty much done the pursuing (for the most part) for any relationship I've ever been in. Well, that's obviously not working for me, as they always turn to honeysuckle. Im not really sure why it's like that - if it's the stereotypical, "guys want to do the chasing" crap or what, but I'm pretty much done with that. If no one finds me interesting enough to "pursue" then so be it - I think I'll be just fine with that.
Yes, I don't chase after men
I'm single but I think that's better than being with someone who doesn't care enough to put out some effort.
I decided to throw in the towel on dating after hearing recently again from a fellow that I dated briefly about a year ago. He split up with his wife about 2 years ago after she cheated and he was clearly still emotionally caught up with her a year ago.
I thought there were some sparks there but it fizzled after he stopped calling. Then he texted just before Thanksgiving and I thought well maybe he's interested. So we met up for lunch, more sparks, then he flaked on meeting up again. And he's only texted since then to say Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. His silence speaks volumes, he's clearly not interested!
So it's time to find some other things to get excited about besides men. Hence, my resolution
-Teresa