Deal breaker questions

[Sterling]

For women:
Would it be a deal breaker if your guy had been raped by a male in the past? (I also know this situation personally)

Tough one. It would depend I guess. If he was severely emotionally messed up due to it, then it might be a deal breaker. I guess it just depends on the person :/

Would it be a deal breaker if your bf/gf gained 20-30 pounds?

 

[Badjedidude]

Would it be a deal breaker if your bf/gf gained 20-30 pounds?

Wouldn't be a deal-breaker... but I would encourage her to lose it.

Would it be a deal-breaker if your date or bf/gf hated doing work of any sort? Even the smallest thing, like doing the dishes.

 

[Sterling]

Would it be a deal breaker if your bf/gf gained 20-30 pounds?

Wouldn't be a deal-breaker... but I would encourage her to lose it.

Would it be a deal-breaker if your date or bf/gf hated doing work of any sort? Even the smallest thing, like doing the dishes.

Well, do they hate it and still do it? Or just hate it and not even do it? If they didn't do it, I would see them as lazy and yeah it would be a deal breaker, but if they still did it...it would be different.

This goes with the question I just asked: What if she/he didn't want to lose the gained weight?

 

[floffyschneeman]

It would be for me, I'd be off. I have tons of situations arguing with my kid brother about doing dishes, don't need another lazy ass. I am fine by myself ^^

would it be a deal breaker if you found out your gf/bf cheated or was involved in an affair in the past?

 

[Badjedidude]

What if she/he didn't want to lose the gained weight?

Then I wouldn't dump her. But I would find ways to starve her down to a healthy weight. XD haha no, seriously... part of the reason I would like her is how healthy she is, so I'd make sure she knew that. Same for me.

would it be a deal breaker if you found out your gf/bf cheated or was involved in an affair in the past?

Kinda depends on the situation. But as a general rule... if someone cheats once then they'll cheat again. Sounds harsh, but honestly... better to be safe. I do, however, have a bit of a "clean-slate" approach to women, as long as what they've done in the past hasn't shown her to be a repeat offender, so to speak.

Would it be a deal-breaker if your date/partner secretly led a fantasy life where they interact with and use love dolls? XD

 

[floffyschneeman]

Would it be a deal-breaker if your date/partner secretly led a fantasy life where they interact with and use love dolls? XD

LOL. I'd be very very... interested. I'd be off sure but first I'd like to see how he interacts with love dolls. I might even think of filming it and make love doll porn. a way to get back at him for preferring love dolls over me ¬¬


would it be a deal breaker if your partner do dirty cam sessions online?

 

[Badjedidude]

would it be a deal breaker if your partner do dirty cam sessions online?

YES. Unless she made like hundreds of thousands of dollars doing it, and bought me many gifts. Then I wouldn't mind as much. Call me crazy...

Would it be a deal-breaker if your date/partner was a hacker who illegally downloading lots of things and regularly hacked into bank accounts and stuff?

 

[Dessa]

^^ I wouldn't wanna piss off a person like that but deal-breaker. Although I'd probably have to fake my death.

Would it be a deal breaker if someone is blind or deaf-mute?

 

[Badjedidude]

Would it be a deal breaker if someone is blind or deaf-mute?

I'm horrible for saying this, but that might actually make it easier to get along with the person. If I didn't have to listen to her yap about honeysuckle when I'm wanting to be alone... haha horrible. Just horrible. No, really, it wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me.

Same question.

 

[Dessa]

It'll be hard but if I really liked that person then I would learn sign-language. So not a deal breaker.

Would it be a deal breaker if someone never wants to get married?

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^I'm not sure I believe in marriage anyway, aside from using it for legal purposes. If a person is mated to another person, does it really matter if they have society's acceptance? I dunno. Personally, for me, it would NOT be a deal-breaker.

Same question.

 

[Sterling]

When someone says they never want to get married but they still want to date and whatnot, I see that as a lack of commitment. Maybe that's just me, but I'd rather have someone who would actually want to get married someday.

Would it be a deal breaker if the person you were dating constantly compared you to their exes. Such as...."______ used to cook me breakfast every Sunday, why don't you do that?"

 

[floffyschneeman]

When someone says they never want to get married but they still want to date and whatnot, I see that as a lack of commitment. Maybe that's just me, but I'd rather have someone who would actually want to get married someday.

I agree.

Would it be a deal breaker if the person you were dating constantly compared you to their exes. Such as...."______ used to cook me breakfast every Sunday, why don't you do that?"

and yes, a deal breaker. I would be constantly annoyed. that's not healthy in a relationship either.

would it be a deal breaker (for girls specially) if your partner cries a lot?

 

[Mr. Sir]

I would it be a deal breaker (for girls specially) if your partner cries a lot?

I would hope every woman would call this a dealbreaker.

I wouldn't mind though if my girl cried alot. I would find it cute.

 

[floffyschneeman]

I would it be a deal breaker (for girls specially) if your partner cries a lot?

I would hope every woman would call this a dealbreaker.

I wouldn't mind though if my girl cried alot. I would find it cute.

I think I would. don't want to sound shallow but I like guys who mans up. guys can cry just not all the time ^^

 

[Sterling]

Would it be a deal breaker if the person you're dating got on chat rooms a lot and flirted with multiple people?

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^Not a deal-breaker, probably... but maybe a bit upsetting. I tend to be the jealous type. I know it's ******* annoying, but... if they're with me then why the fresia are they flirting? Anyway, it wouldn't be a deal-breaker, but I'd at least let her know that there's a limit to how far her flirting can go. *shrug*

Same question.

 

[jales]

That is an interesting question, my ex used to flirt a lot and hug and kiss his 'female' friends ALL THE TIME. It annoyedme so much it is not funny. I did not leave him for this, but I am soooo happy the relationship did not work out.

So for me it may not be the immediate deal breaker, but I guess long term the relationship wont last. I think it should be a deal breaker though, it is unkind. Would it be a deal breaker if the guy is too big and so it hurts in bed a lot. Like really really makes you cry hurts in bed. And even after you all have been at it for months, you are still not big enough for him... and it still will hurt everytime you all have sex?

 

[Badjedidude]

Would it be a deal breaker if the guy is too big and so it hurts in bed a lot. Like really really makes you cry hurts in bed. And even after you all have been at it for months, you are still not big enough for him... and it still will hurt everytime you all have sex?

That's an excellent question.

But I can't answer it because I'm not gay. lol

Anyone else wanna take a crack at it? I'm curious about the answer and you ladies' opinions.

 

[Sterling]

Deal breaker. I'm not going to put myself in pain all the time just to have someone.

What would you do if your gf/bf rarely wanted to have sex?