LeaningIntoTheMuse
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For someone who is shy around girls, and doesn't know how to seduce them, is this an appropriate thing to get? Should I invest in PUA manuals?
Ak5 said:
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:For someone who is shy around girls, and doesn't know how to seduce them, is this an appropriate thing to get? Should I invest in PUA manuals?
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:Ak5 said:
If what I said was stupid, then please give me advice that will work.
Clearly you have dated. Don't act like a snotty teenager. When you are almost 30 years old, and haven't kissed, then you can act snotty.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:Nice guys lose, every time. I just want to even the odds.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:They have liked me, and known that I liked them. They still don't want to make the first move.
LoneKiller said:Hi LeaningIntoTheMuse.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but I noticed in your post you say that you are shy and don't know how to seduce them. Are you looking for a relationship or to just get laid?
Felix said:If I were you, I'd give it a try.
Sex is pretty much the best thing you can have.
It's really all about the pussy! Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to try to look smart or speaking out of asexual/virgin ignorance provoked by his own fears and insecurities. I'm all for art, science and sfuff like that, but nothing compares to unloading between a woman's legs.
That's the way it is, our major insticts are 1) survival 2) reproduce.
I'd say anything that could potentially help you get there is worth the try.
As for me, I'm still trying...
What I can tell you for sure, beta attitudes won't get you anything these days, in the post feminist era. You should really have a more agressive approach (in a positive way of course) or women will walk all over you. DON'T take their insecurities serious and DON'T take their honeysuckle.
Of course, you can also wait till you get lucky... but I think is better to improve yourself so you can have a better chance of choosing a girl that trully satisfies you.
Lonely in BC said:Sounds like the answer a 16 year old meat-head would give (Ak5, if you read this no slight meant to you).
Anyhow- pickup artist manuals, really? I'm pretty sure the biggest success that comes out of these "books" is lining the pockets of those who write them. I've glanced at a couple- seemed like a lot of trite nonsense to me.
I'm curious- how do you present yourself to the opposite gender? Do you come across as masculine, feminine, asexual, androgynous or something else? The reason I ask this is your choice of avatar- is that how you identify yourself or is it just a cool looking picture that you like?
I'm not judging or criticizing, just hoping to help you find what you seek.
Lonely in BC said:Felix said:If I were you, I'd give it a try.
Sex is pretty much the best thing you can have.
It's really all about the pussy! Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to try to look smart or speaking out of asexual/virgin ignorance provoked by his own fears and insecurities. I'm all for art, science and sfuff like that, but nothing compares to unloading between a woman's legs.
That's the way it is, our major insticts are 1) survival 2) reproduce.
I'd say anything that could potentially help you get there is worth the try.
As for me, I'm still trying...
What I can tell you for sure, beta attitudes won't get you anything these days, in the post feminist era. You should really have a more agressive approach (in a positive way of course) or women will walk all over you. DON'T take their insecurities serious and DON'T take their honeysuckle.
Of course, you can also wait till you get lucky... but I think is better to improve yourself so you can have a better chance of choosing a girl that trully satisfies you.
Sounds like the answer a 16 year old meat-head would give (Ak5, if you read this no slight meant to you).
Anyhow- pickup artist manuals, really? I'm pretty sure the biggest success that comes out of these "books" is lining the pockets of those who write them. I've glanced at a couple- seemed like a lot of trite nonsense to me.
I'm curious- how do you present yourself to the opposite gender? Do you come across as masculine, feminine, asexual, androgynous or something else? The reason I ask this is your choice of avatar- is that how you identify yourself or is it just a cool looking picture that you like?
I'm not judging or criticizing, just hoping to help you find what you seek.
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