SophiaGrace said:
I think in order for things to get easier, your Significant Other needs to not be your Alpha and Omega. You muse carefully preserve your separate identity from them, if you do not do so, and wrap yourself up in them, when they leave, they'll take a piece of you with them and you won't be able to cope.
Just my opinion.
I'm trying really hard. The last time, I made my ex my whole world, but I'm working harder on my education and working and keeping my hobbies this time around, but the problem is, I'm on this forum because I struggle to have friends and it seems like my boyfriends always become the majority of my social life. I've been giving out my number to people I want to hang out with (they don't return the favor) and begging my one friend to hang out with me that I live with, but she is too busy with her boyfriend. So it's hard not to make him my whole world when, besides my parents, he's the one other person I really talk to. >=( It's so frustrating and I am definitely scared I'm setting myself up for the same kind of pain again.
Maybe people don't want to be my friend because I act too desperate to be their friends. I don't know. Or maybe because I'm not a crazy party animal. I drink, but I don't really get drunk or act insane and spontaneous during parties, so yea. D= Not that I am invited to any. If I go to one it's because my boyfriend was invited to one and brings me along.