Do you choose to be alone?

[Blue Sky]

Well I did today, It's christmas day and I didn't venture out anywhere, and I could have, so maybe my loneliness is my own fault.

 

[frey12]

Christmas sucks im hungry. And grumpy, I just want food.

 

[Qui]

It's not christmas yet. Woww, you guys are in tomorrow! I'm talking to the future! Sweet! It's christmas eve!

 

[diamond-dancer]

Well I did today, It's christmas day and I didn't venture out anywhere, and I could have, so maybe my loneliness is my own fault.

Yes. Sometimes I'm just not feeling up to being social. I haven't left the house today... my grandparents came over for lunch, but I don't plan on doing anything else.

 

[frey12]

Same here constantly dealing with people is hard and i have to hold back being annoyed all the time.

 

[Kristen]

yeah, I chose to...I want my space...I wanna breathe....I'm crazy....
I feel like I want intimacy for like a night or eve or whatever....but then I need a break from that person.....and I can't have it this way...aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

and i have to hold back being annoyed all the time.

thats all?
I have to hold back from my desire to hurt some people...lol

 

[copperation]

Bloody hell, and I think I have it bad not being able to socialise very well.

You could at least be civil.

 

[jjam]

I think so. I was invited (via mail) to breakfast for Christmas, and I declined. I'm about to make brunch here at my place. That's just one example of many opportunities I've passed on.

 

[Kristen]

if u don't like the people u can't force urself to go.....

 

[Bluey]

I spent most of yesterday (christmas day) at my mums and dads. Got back home about 6pm and then spent the rest of the evening alone. Today I have visited my parents again. Only for 2 hours. Am all alone again and if I had anywhere to go I would go. I hate being alone at such times. In fact I hate it most times. I do like my own company but not all the time. I think to much is unhealthy.

 

[Kristen]

oh...I remember feeling like this long time ago though...its terrible.
sorry to hear that, man.

 

[jales]

it's not a choice .. but it's definitely my fault

 

[toxic-tears]

it's not a choice .. but it's definitely my fault

Maybe there is a reason for it. That's why it happened. Its not ur fault, dude. Don't blame it to yourself.

Cheer up! There is an explaination for that. We just don't know why. =)

 

[tennisgirl]

it's not a choice .. but it's definitely my fault

ditto :/

 

[Chris 2]

In a way, yes I think I choose to be alone, but since I have social anxiety disorder, I don't think I have a choice whichever way u look at it.

 

[human_condition]

I'm avoidant (want to be social but know I'll mess it up so don't bother). I only really talk to one or two people, but it's really a boundary my shyness sets, and if I could control it I would. But ultimatley it's up to me.

As far as romantic relaionships go, right now I am choosing to be alone- but I'm not sure it would make a difference if I wanted a boyfriend.