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Oceanmist23
Guest
Is there anyone here who would actually admit to stop sending PM's to someone just to see if they get a PM back from that person asking why they're not replying?
I've never done this myself, and I never will. And I certainly don't understand people who would do that.
Private messages are not a game. The fact that someone is PMing you should be proof enough that they care. You shouldn't have to test the friendship by suddenly not PMing someone anymore.
And another thing....
Who here has frequently experienced that people suddenly stop talking to them, even though everything was going well?
Are people getting bored? Fed up? Too depressed? I mean, what is it really?
I've been nothing but nice to everyone I've spoken to, but people just seem to stop communicating after a while.
Aren't I funny enough for them? Do I need to come up with hilarious punch lines in every message?
Or do I need to talk about something hugely depressing in order to catch their attention?
It annoys me, I don't understand it, and since this a FORUM for LONELY people and not some random chat room it would be nice if people actually told me straight out if they weren't interested in PMing any more.
It's better than not hearing anything from them suddenly.
I've never done this myself, and I never will. And I certainly don't understand people who would do that.
Private messages are not a game. The fact that someone is PMing you should be proof enough that they care. You shouldn't have to test the friendship by suddenly not PMing someone anymore.
And another thing....
Who here has frequently experienced that people suddenly stop talking to them, even though everything was going well?
Are people getting bored? Fed up? Too depressed? I mean, what is it really?
I've been nothing but nice to everyone I've spoken to, but people just seem to stop communicating after a while.
Aren't I funny enough for them? Do I need to come up with hilarious punch lines in every message?
Or do I need to talk about something hugely depressing in order to catch their attention?
It annoys me, I don't understand it, and since this a FORUM for LONELY people and not some random chat room it would be nice if people actually told me straight out if they weren't interested in PMing any more.
It's better than not hearing anything from them suddenly.