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kermithomer
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hey everybody,
Is it just me, or does it feel like theres something seriously wrong with us if we dont have members of the opposite sex making idiots of themselves to meet us?? There seems to be this idea that if that isnt happening to us, then we're losers and theres something wrong!! Is anybody else in the habit of using this behaviour (no ones paying attention to me therefore im not worthy, and vice versa)? Its certainly shoved in our faces through the media, and i find that its really affecting my self esteem - making loneliness combine with feeling bad about myself!! Anyone relate?
Is it just me, or does it feel like theres something seriously wrong with us if we dont have members of the opposite sex making idiots of themselves to meet us?? There seems to be this idea that if that isnt happening to us, then we're losers and theres something wrong!! Is anybody else in the habit of using this behaviour (no ones paying attention to me therefore im not worthy, and vice versa)? Its certainly shoved in our faces through the media, and i find that its really affecting my self esteem - making loneliness combine with feeling bad about myself!! Anyone relate?