Apparently my mum and dad had been to my therapist yesterday to talk about me. That's fine in itself as my therapist had already forewarned me, and we agreed upon what the three of them were gonna talk about and such.
I've been seeing this therapist for over a year and feel like we have built up a certain level of trust between each other, and therefore tell her many things that I wouldn't tell her otherwise. As I'm over 16 she can't tell anything to my parents without my approval, so when she asked if she could mention the fact that I use drugs to them I said no.
Today I got a phone call from my mum. She says hi, asks how I'm doing, the usual stuff, then she says that her and my dad went to see my therapist the other day. I already knew that so, that's what I say, but then my mum cut's me short and says: I'm really worried about you! The lady we went to see yesterday told me and your dad that you have been "experimenting with drugs"... Is this true?
I'm shocked and stunned! I answer "kinda", and say that I've only been drinking and that's all. My mum believes me, and then she goes on ranting about my dad, which is to be expected.
I'm barely listening. I'm so shocked and angry! WHY THE fresia DID MY THERAPIST TELL THEM ABOUT THAT? I told her NOT to do it and she said ok! I feel betrayed! And to tell that to my mum! She has enough worries! She doesn't have to worry about me!! OHH FUUCK, I'm gonna quit therapy and tell that stupid ***** what I think about her.
Sorry for this random rage thing but I had to let it out
I've been seeing this therapist for over a year and feel like we have built up a certain level of trust between each other, and therefore tell her many things that I wouldn't tell her otherwise. As I'm over 16 she can't tell anything to my parents without my approval, so when she asked if she could mention the fact that I use drugs to them I said no.
Today I got a phone call from my mum. She says hi, asks how I'm doing, the usual stuff, then she says that her and my dad went to see my therapist the other day. I already knew that so, that's what I say, but then my mum cut's me short and says: I'm really worried about you! The lady we went to see yesterday told me and your dad that you have been "experimenting with drugs"... Is this true?
I'm shocked and stunned! I answer "kinda", and say that I've only been drinking and that's all. My mum believes me, and then she goes on ranting about my dad, which is to be expected.
I'm barely listening. I'm so shocked and angry! WHY THE fresia DID MY THERAPIST TELL THEM ABOUT THAT? I told her NOT to do it and she said ok! I feel betrayed! And to tell that to my mum! She has enough worries! She doesn't have to worry about me!! OHH FUUCK, I'm gonna quit therapy and tell that stupid ***** what I think about her.
Sorry for this random rage thing but I had to let it out