GrannySmith111
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This is gonna be a pretty long read, but to those who are willing to read it,please help me out with this?
I've had a group of four friends i've known since 8th grade. We always hung out after school or whenever we could over the summers. Unfortunately, i had to move during the second half of 8th grade. I moved to a different county. Nonetheless, we still kept in touch a lot during the summer of 8th grade. This would be either through text or more often, online video games. We would always get online and play cal of duty whenever we could sometimes staying up late and having a blast. Aside from this, we still hung out in person often surprisingly. I would always get my mom to drive me down to their neighborhood and we would hangout in person. I was able to move back to the county i used to live in but i go to a different school than them now.
Over time, especially last summer i have started to hangout with them less and less. Now i don't know if maybe they genuinely "couldn't hangout" or "didn't feel like it" or whether they just didn't wanna hangout with me and hung out amongst themselves instead. So lets say my group of friends are friends A, B, C , and D.
Point is, they were never consistent with what they said about when they could hangout. Sometimes they "cant hangout" when i ask them to but suddenly they can go fishing with each other (Friend B and C mainly) . Other times they would all go see a movie or go hangout without saying a word to me . There were times when one or two people said they couldn't hangout while the other two could. When i got with the two who could hangout and we asked the two friends who said they "couldn't hangout" to go outside, they suddenly could go. Again point is, they don't hangout with me as they used to. And they rarely asked me to go hangout with them like the previous summer.
Remember how i said we used to always play online video games? Only friends A,B and me play. And for some reason they will always have time for that. They wont ask me to go outside with them or hangout that much anymore but when it comes to PS3, they always ask me 90% of the time.
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Most recently this happened today. On Tuesday i asked my friend B to hangout on Friday. Only him and i did it mainly just for laughs and giggles just to see what would happen because i couldn't hangout on Friday anyways. I began by asking him if he was free wed and Thurs to which he said no. I asked about Fri if he wanted to go outside and he said idc. Im like alright lets go friday then dude to which he didn't reply anything. Now there is still the group message that has all of us in it including me. Today in the group message i saw a conversation between friend A and B talking about how they were going to see a movie Fri. I just ignored them, until friend B texts me and says "idk if i can i might go to the movies". This im assuming is continuing the conversation we had THREE DAYS ago about me asking him to hangout on Fri. I ask him why hes telling me this now and all he says is "i forgot" and said i can come if i get my own ride. I do my best to just let it go and say alright we can go outside next week.
I know i shouldn't be mad over one little thing, but this isn't the first time. This is one of several similar incidents that have happened over the summer like i said. I dont hangout with them anymore that much in person. Its not because we dont talk anymore because we still do. Mainly during online PS3 and ocasionally in group chat. Its more "i cant i have hw" or "don't feel like it".
I really dont know what to do. Right now, i feel like im just gonna let things slide by until that point when i just cant take this BS anymore. I dont wanna leave them since ive known them longer than anyone else. But when that point comes when i cant take the BS anymore, im probably just gonna move on with my life.
Im sure a lot of you feel the same way i do. Its easy to make new friends, but its hard to make real ones u keerp for a long time.
What are your thoughts? Anything you guys think i should do? Any help or advice you have would be much appreciated.
Any questions you guys might have, i'll be happy to answer them.
I've had a group of four friends i've known since 8th grade. We always hung out after school or whenever we could over the summers. Unfortunately, i had to move during the second half of 8th grade. I moved to a different county. Nonetheless, we still kept in touch a lot during the summer of 8th grade. This would be either through text or more often, online video games. We would always get online and play cal of duty whenever we could sometimes staying up late and having a blast. Aside from this, we still hung out in person often surprisingly. I would always get my mom to drive me down to their neighborhood and we would hangout in person. I was able to move back to the county i used to live in but i go to a different school than them now.
Over time, especially last summer i have started to hangout with them less and less. Now i don't know if maybe they genuinely "couldn't hangout" or "didn't feel like it" or whether they just didn't wanna hangout with me and hung out amongst themselves instead. So lets say my group of friends are friends A, B, C , and D.
Point is, they were never consistent with what they said about when they could hangout. Sometimes they "cant hangout" when i ask them to but suddenly they can go fishing with each other (Friend B and C mainly) . Other times they would all go see a movie or go hangout without saying a word to me . There were times when one or two people said they couldn't hangout while the other two could. When i got with the two who could hangout and we asked the two friends who said they "couldn't hangout" to go outside, they suddenly could go. Again point is, they don't hangout with me as they used to. And they rarely asked me to go hangout with them like the previous summer.
Remember how i said we used to always play online video games? Only friends A,B and me play. And for some reason they will always have time for that. They wont ask me to go outside with them or hangout that much anymore but when it comes to PS3, they always ask me 90% of the time.
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Most recently this happened today. On Tuesday i asked my friend B to hangout on Friday. Only him and i did it mainly just for laughs and giggles just to see what would happen because i couldn't hangout on Friday anyways. I began by asking him if he was free wed and Thurs to which he said no. I asked about Fri if he wanted to go outside and he said idc. Im like alright lets go friday then dude to which he didn't reply anything. Now there is still the group message that has all of us in it including me. Today in the group message i saw a conversation between friend A and B talking about how they were going to see a movie Fri. I just ignored them, until friend B texts me and says "idk if i can i might go to the movies". This im assuming is continuing the conversation we had THREE DAYS ago about me asking him to hangout on Fri. I ask him why hes telling me this now and all he says is "i forgot" and said i can come if i get my own ride. I do my best to just let it go and say alright we can go outside next week.
I know i shouldn't be mad over one little thing, but this isn't the first time. This is one of several similar incidents that have happened over the summer like i said. I dont hangout with them anymore that much in person. Its not because we dont talk anymore because we still do. Mainly during online PS3 and ocasionally in group chat. Its more "i cant i have hw" or "don't feel like it".
I really dont know what to do. Right now, i feel like im just gonna let things slide by until that point when i just cant take this BS anymore. I dont wanna leave them since ive known them longer than anyone else. But when that point comes when i cant take the BS anymore, im probably just gonna move on with my life.
Im sure a lot of you feel the same way i do. Its easy to make new friends, but its hard to make real ones u keerp for a long time.
What are your thoughts? Anything you guys think i should do? Any help or advice you have would be much appreciated.
Any questions you guys might have, i'll be happy to answer them.