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SophiaGrace
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So,
I am having several infuriating incidents right now in graduate school and I don't know how to not be angry about these incidents.
I feel so invalidated by my cohort (classmates). And I just figured out that one of them saw me post my grade on facebook. (I do this sometimes, because, I am proud of myself, and it lets my family be proud of me too). My grade was much better than theirs.
They abused this information, this trust that I had with them to go and talk with the professor about unequal standards.
I have since unfriended them, but this explains why this person has been nasty to me in class. Invalidating things I've said, and laughing at me.
Unfortunately it's not just this one classmate, but three of my 7 classmates doing this to me. All I wanted to do was make friends.
What is wrong with this world?
(and yes, I am trying to make an appointment with my Academic Advisor)
Never add people you just met to fb. Like from work, or from school for this reason. They don't deserve to know your inner being unless you trust them. This world is ridiculous and competitive.
All I wanted was cooperation. All I wanted was friends. I never wanted to be laughed at and belittled.
I'm so angry it's not even funny...
Another Incident: When the professor said that I did good with my counseling and gave me what I felt was good feedback. They told me he didn't give me enough. They were unhappy that I got a good review. It makes me feel good, that I seem to be doing well with mock therapy sessions, and it felt like they took it away from me.
Geez.
I am having several infuriating incidents right now in graduate school and I don't know how to not be angry about these incidents.
I feel so invalidated by my cohort (classmates). And I just figured out that one of them saw me post my grade on facebook. (I do this sometimes, because, I am proud of myself, and it lets my family be proud of me too). My grade was much better than theirs.
They abused this information, this trust that I had with them to go and talk with the professor about unequal standards.
I have since unfriended them, but this explains why this person has been nasty to me in class. Invalidating things I've said, and laughing at me.
Unfortunately it's not just this one classmate, but three of my 7 classmates doing this to me. All I wanted to do was make friends.
What is wrong with this world?
(and yes, I am trying to make an appointment with my Academic Advisor)
Never add people you just met to fb. Like from work, or from school for this reason. They don't deserve to know your inner being unless you trust them. This world is ridiculous and competitive.
All I wanted was cooperation. All I wanted was friends. I never wanted to be laughed at and belittled.
I'm so angry it's not even funny...
Another Incident: When the professor said that I did good with my counseling and gave me what I felt was good feedback. They told me he didn't give me enough. They were unhappy that I got a good review. It makes me feel good, that I seem to be doing well with mock therapy sessions, and it felt like they took it away from me.
Geez.