Unique Unicorn
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Hey Everyone,
Hope you are well and happy. So, I come here as my life has changed so dramatically over the last 5 years. Long, boring story, but basically divorced husband and lost all of my friends.
Married a new much older man and have NO friends whatsoever, despite constantly offereing the hand of friendship, pursuing lots of social activities and so on.
Previously, I could make friends easily, but now, it's just like extracting teeth.
I have even seen a councillor about it, as I am not accustomed to having no friends, her advice;
'People only enjoy friendships when they feel more powerful', no friendship can exist between equals, if you make people feel less, then they become threatened and insecure'
That is so sad, so I have to dumb down and dress like a dag to have friends? Go figure.
Anyway, thanks for listening and Greetings from Australia.
Hope you are well and happy. So, I come here as my life has changed so dramatically over the last 5 years. Long, boring story, but basically divorced husband and lost all of my friends.
Married a new much older man and have NO friends whatsoever, despite constantly offereing the hand of friendship, pursuing lots of social activities and so on.
Previously, I could make friends easily, but now, it's just like extracting teeth.
I have even seen a councillor about it, as I am not accustomed to having no friends, her advice;
'People only enjoy friendships when they feel more powerful', no friendship can exist between equals, if you make people feel less, then they become threatened and insecure'
That is so sad, so I have to dumb down and dress like a dag to have friends? Go figure.
Anyway, thanks for listening and Greetings from Australia.