HopefulBoy
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Hi I'm Chris.
New here and just saying hi. I came across this forum this morning, and its seems like what I need right now, a nice group of people who are friendly to each other.
Im 28, living in South East of England.
So a little about what brought me here;
I had been struggling with depression and anxiety since around October 2016, I had moved back down south after living with my girlfriend of 6 years in Norfolk. The idea was to move in with a couple of my friends while we saved for a house together. Unfortunately after moving into a rented house with my friends and girlfriend fell out with each other which lead to me and my GF breaking up (which was very sad and the last thing I wanted).
I then became depressed and socially anxious, stopped spending time with my friends and secluded myself from them spending all my time in my room on my own. I realised that things were getting bad so I made the choice to begin therapy (still going to therapy now).
During my therapy I realised that I needed to get out of the house I was living in because my anxiety was stopping me eating as I didnt want to leave my room and go to the kitchen. I told my friends that I was going to move out and that I would give them as much time as I could before moving out, I ended up paying for an extra month's rent to help them out after I had moved out.
Once I moved out into a place on my own, things with my friends got really bitter and spiteful, one friend said that I had caused him stress by me moving out, and as a result of that conversation I now no longer feel comfortable around my friendship group. I haven't spoken to them or seen them for a few months now.
So basically, I am now on my own and feeling very lonely, and looking for some people to talk to...
New here and just saying hi. I came across this forum this morning, and its seems like what I need right now, a nice group of people who are friendly to each other.
Im 28, living in South East of England.
So a little about what brought me here;
I had been struggling with depression and anxiety since around October 2016, I had moved back down south after living with my girlfriend of 6 years in Norfolk. The idea was to move in with a couple of my friends while we saved for a house together. Unfortunately after moving into a rented house with my friends and girlfriend fell out with each other which lead to me and my GF breaking up (which was very sad and the last thing I wanted).
I then became depressed and socially anxious, stopped spending time with my friends and secluded myself from them spending all my time in my room on my own. I realised that things were getting bad so I made the choice to begin therapy (still going to therapy now).
During my therapy I realised that I needed to get out of the house I was living in because my anxiety was stopping me eating as I didnt want to leave my room and go to the kitchen. I told my friends that I was going to move out and that I would give them as much time as I could before moving out, I ended up paying for an extra month's rent to help them out after I had moved out.
Once I moved out into a place on my own, things with my friends got really bitter and spiteful, one friend said that I had caused him stress by me moving out, and as a result of that conversation I now no longer feel comfortable around my friendship group. I haven't spoken to them or seen them for a few months now.
So basically, I am now on my own and feeling very lonely, and looking for some people to talk to...
. Welcome to the board.
