cool_breeze
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Hello people. I just want to type out what I feel. I haven't broken things down quite like this before. First of all I'm 28. I feel kind of like 2 people. Let me explain. I guess we can do the good stuff first. I've traveled around the world a fair amount. I've seen a lot, had experiences. I'm tall, considered good looking, interesting, stuff like that. I have a lot of interests--film, photography, history, travel, music, art, outdoors stuff, some sports, etc.
But now the bad stuff. When I travel I often meet people and we connect and have a good time. I make new friends. I know a fair amount of people around the world. But they seem happy, have jobs they like, have a significant other. I want that to be ME. I want that more than anything. I don't want to dwell but here's what I have. I have no car (gone through 2 that have died), not much money, no job in 2011 right now, no serious girlfriend, used to have a fair amount of moderate health problems growing up and sometimes I think that limited me (I think it did) though I think I'm healthy now and I don't really want to think about that anymore. I do have a university degree. I'm trying not to dwell but I come from a family where I was given kind of generic advice and I feel that I was controlled too much growing up. I spent a lot of money in college and am in debt from it but didn't even really get to do what I wanted to do. Would have loved to go around the world sooner because as you can tell it's one of my passions and study abroad (even if it meant more debt) but instead plowed through a sort of generic degree. And the family I came from is pretty dull.
And you know I have tried to break into a good job but I've never had one. At 28 I've just been getting by my whole life basically. Never had a lot of success. I don't even need "success" per se. What I mean by that is what I already mentioned, just a happy rhythm w/ a girl, a job that interests me, a good life. Sometimes everything seems like such a competition. People are getting phDs, buying houses, getting families. I seem to be stuck w/ nothing. Everyone seems to have "clicked" in life. They have their routine. I feel on my own, with a formless life. I feel like the core of my life is empty. It might look great from afar...tall guy, seen the world, good person, but just empty and lonely at the core.
But now the bad stuff. When I travel I often meet people and we connect and have a good time. I make new friends. I know a fair amount of people around the world. But they seem happy, have jobs they like, have a significant other. I want that to be ME. I want that more than anything. I don't want to dwell but here's what I have. I have no car (gone through 2 that have died), not much money, no job in 2011 right now, no serious girlfriend, used to have a fair amount of moderate health problems growing up and sometimes I think that limited me (I think it did) though I think I'm healthy now and I don't really want to think about that anymore. I do have a university degree. I'm trying not to dwell but I come from a family where I was given kind of generic advice and I feel that I was controlled too much growing up. I spent a lot of money in college and am in debt from it but didn't even really get to do what I wanted to do. Would have loved to go around the world sooner because as you can tell it's one of my passions and study abroad (even if it meant more debt) but instead plowed through a sort of generic degree. And the family I came from is pretty dull.
And you know I have tried to break into a good job but I've never had one. At 28 I've just been getting by my whole life basically. Never had a lot of success. I don't even need "success" per se. What I mean by that is what I already mentioned, just a happy rhythm w/ a girl, a job that interests me, a good life. Sometimes everything seems like such a competition. People are getting phDs, buying houses, getting families. I seem to be stuck w/ nothing. Everyone seems to have "clicked" in life. They have their routine. I feel on my own, with a formless life. I feel like the core of my life is empty. It might look great from afar...tall guy, seen the world, good person, but just empty and lonely at the core.