Well, here I am. 27 as of this month. I'm employed (doing industrial design work), in pretty good shape (165 lbs at 5'9 - kinda short but not a midget), and I have a fairly active social life. I still haven't figured out what to do, and to be honest the problem is getting worse. I was somewhat sexually active in high school and the early parts of college (orally, and basically anything other than vaginal intercourse) but as the years go on, the encounters are happening less and less frequently. The last time I felt a naked boob was my sophomore year in college, that was like 6 years ago now. The last time I kissed a girl was when I graduated college, almost two years ago now.
The sad part is, and I don't mean to discourage anyone, but I do put myself out there every weekend. I will say though that it was fairly recently that I decided to "change my lifestyle" and we'll see how it goes. It was never that bad in the first place... I have many many friends, but i felt obviously that things were not going accordingr to plan, so something must be done! It was about 6 months ago when I decided I was wasting my 20's being out of shape. Along with that I adopted a "why not" mentality. Meaning, if someone asks me if i want to do something like go out or go on a road trip or whatever, I look at it objectively rather than make up some excuse because I would rather sit around smoking weed playing video games.
I guess I was at least dancing with a girl last weekend, and it was intamite dancing, but I asked her if she wanted to do something besides dancing (because i am honestly not a very good dancer, especially with a partner), and I was rejected. Still hung out wi her later took, so i could wallow in my sorrow.
Anyway, my plan is to keep my head up and continue staying in shape, and keeping the rest of my l,ife together. Hopefully I'll meet someone, but who knows.
