VanillaCreme said:
If someone didn't love me back, or give my love in return, I'd leave them alone. And it's as simple as that. Wouldn't even bother with them anymore.
that is easier said than done. ones perspective seems to change once feelings get involved. especially if the relationship has lasted for quite some time.
I can relate to this totaly, but not to do with a romantic relationship, but a friendship. someone whom I've had alot of histroy with and saw them as my best friend and sometimes only friend. but it's like a rollercoaster. most times feeling like its slowly going downhill in a gradual progression of getting more and more distant, and every once in a while we have a moment that lifts it back up and we're best buds again. only to start feeling distance again shortly there after.
this is a friend I care for very much and feel like ive known forever. but it really feels as though it's one sided and I am merely a casual friend they can take or leave depending on if i'm needed or not.
but how do you just get upset one day and say, ok.. thats it. it's over. move on and forget they exist? when you've talked to them almost every day for over a decade?
i wish there was some kinda pill or electro shock that could help me do that..
the only quick and easy solution is to not care at all.. and i can't do that either =/