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LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
If it really does work, why don't I hear more about this book?

errr....it's a book written by a woman written for women?
Its their secret..lmao

u aint figure it out yet???? about all the badboy bullshit u been
getting fed..

Have your ass turn into a doormate.lmao
Cuz it is working...duh

man ..they just been using u as an add champain and u aint even getting paid..for crying out loud.lmao

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LoneKiller said:
Women love the "Bad Boys".

A few years ago, I would agreed with this, and I even would have said that I wanted one myself. But now, I realize that I want someone who can fix a car, fix a multitude of other things, and then we have dinner together and watch something.

I think people just need to realize what is best for them.
 
VanillaCreme said:
LoneKiller said:
Women love the "Bad Boys".

A few years ago, I would agreed with this, and I even would have said that I wanted one myself. But now, I realize that I want someone who can fix a car, fix a multitude of other things, and then we have dinner together and watch something.

I think people just need to realize what is best for them.

It's because you've matured.

The reason why many bad boys are able to date younger women is because the younger women chase the bad boys. Mature women want nothing to do with them.
 
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
VanillaCreme said:
LoneKiller said:
Women love the "Bad Boys".

A few years ago, I would agreed with this, and I even would have said that I wanted one myself. But now, I realize that I want someone who can fix a car, fix a multitude of other things, and then we have dinner together and watch something.

I think people just need to realize what is best for them.

It's because you've matured.

The reason why many bad boys are able to date younger women is because the younger women chase the bad boys. Mature women want nothing to do with them.

I think it's more of I did get the bad boy... and it was bad. I never want to do that again, and I - unknowingly - changed what I wanted. I never want to go through another one of him again, so why want the same thing that doesn't work? I'd be insane.

For some people, that pathway might work. They might be able to cope with it. So it's not all terrible. It just wasn't for me.

He was younger than me, by the way.
 
VanillaCreme said:
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
VanillaCreme said:
LoneKiller said:
Women love the "Bad Boys".

A few years ago, I would agreed with this, and I even would have said that I wanted one myself. But now, I realize that I want someone who can fix a car, fix a multitude of other things, and then we have dinner together and watch something.

I think people just need to realize what is best for them.

It's because you've matured.

The reason why many bad boys are able to date younger women is because the younger women chase the bad boys. Mature women want nothing to do with them.

I think it's more of I did get the bad boy... and it was bad. I never want to do that again, and I - unknowingly - changed what I wanted. I never want to go through another one of him again, so why want the same thing that doesn't work? I'd be insane.

For some people, that pathway might work. They might be able to cope with it. So it's not all terrible. It just wasn't for me.

He was younger than me, by the way.

I just don't understand the concept. But I hope I get my chance eventually.

I am a published musician, I am a published writer, and I am studying to get a job in a good field of study. I shouldn't worry about my life, I am blessed, even without girls (and I have porn for that.)
 
LoneKiller said:
I'm surprised some of the female members haven't commented on your guys' posts! lol

Ohh the classic bad boy discussion..

LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
I guess they're tired of hearing it.

lol I tought the same :p

BTW the book intrigues me... I'll try to check it out.

I wanna know... the tricks of the manipulative bitches. So I don't fall for them again...
 
I just want someone to fall for me. If it's my looks - I understand I look like the nerdy guy from 2 and a half men - then so be it. Confess it. Don't just say I'm good looking, and then date my best friend or the guy in the corner, who has nothing going for him but a good smile and bulging muscles. Don't say that he's better qualified than me, because he is a jock and I am not. I understand that. Part of the reason I became a musician was so I could have a reason to avoid the jock lifestyle, and still be cool...I am cool with the jocks, but still not attractive to the girls that date the jocks.

Ugh.
 
I am funny. I have a great sense of humor, and can crack silly - and very funny - jokes off of the top of my head. I seriously wanted to be a comedian when I was a kid.

That doesn't matter. They don't let me get close enough to actually see me for who I am.
 
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
I just want someone to fall for me. If it's my looks - I understand I look like the nerdy guy from 2 and a half men - then so be it. Confess it. Don't just say I'm good looking, and then date my best friend or the guy in the corner, who has nothing going for him but a good smile and bulging muscles. Don't say that he's better qualified than me, because he is a jock and I am not. I understand that. Part of the reason I became a musician was so I could have a reason to avoid the jock lifestyle, and still be cool...I am cool with the jocks, but still not attractive to the girls that date the jocks.

Ugh.

Ducky? I don't think he's bad looking. I didn't think he was bad looking when he played Ducky. Really though, that right girl will come your way. If you asked me personally, I think concentrating on a being certain type of person isn't the way to go. Be a musician because you love it and have a passion for it.

I have a friend that I used to go to school with since pre-school. And I think she concentrates on all the wrong things in life. I wouldn't care either way, but she complains about not being able to find the right guy and whatnot. Well, honestly, if she didn't care so much about being perfect with a too skinny body and expensive clothes and whatnot, I think she'd be much better off.

And I say too skinny, because she's way smaller than she was in high school. She looked really nice in school too. She wasn't fat at all, but she thought she was. And she's yet to understand it's not her body or what she wears, it's her mentality about it. I know she goes after guys who want her for specific things, rather than genuinely liking her. They break her heart, and then she wonders why. I hope she gets a clue one of these days. :rolleyes:
 
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
VanillaCreme said:
LoneKiller said:
Women love the "Bad Boys".

A few years ago, I would agreed with this, and I even would have said that I wanted one myself. But now, I realize that I want someone who can fix a car, fix a multitude of other things, and then we have dinner together and watch something.

I think people just need to realize what is best for them.

It's because you've matured.

The reason why many bad boys are able to date younger women is because the younger women chase the bad boys. Mature women want nothing to do with them.

Lmao....
Like I say...Im the magicMan with the magic hands....
play the guitar
play women
and play with my fucken cars too.
In other words Im fucken mechanically incline too.
I aint afraid to get down and dirty...fix honeysuckle around the house.
Unclogg the tiolet, fix the serwer lines, fix her blow dryer, washing
machines or cralw under the hood of her car...
I dont get gross out french kissing her after she swollows, either.

I dont even have a fucken tatoo or bodies piercings on me...ffs

I not all fucken tie in a knott when i see a sexy woman. I let her know she's sexy....
"shower me with your love ..babe"

And here's your biggest mistake....its very subtal but it's all in your mind set.
"a woman FALL for YOU"...it also means at some level you think and believe women ought to be lower than you.
Or get all fresia up in the head to where i dont know what the fresia she's doing to be with you....
Women smell that honeysuckle miles and miles away.

It's a fine line of putting her on the alter. You simply have to walk it or dance it.
Yes...Sassy is a dancer. She knows how to do many, many dances.
When I get out on the dance floor with her...It would be all about her.
Im just there to SUPPORT HER...while she dances around me....
The principles of it that will effect other area in your relationship....

A woman like her...especailly a woman like her...would be difficult or imnposible to seduce.
She had thousands upon thousnads of men come after her...
telling her all kinds of stupid bullshit, lines or empty promises.
She's heard it all and experinced it from all kinds of angles...

YOu must come to her with a lot of love...unconditional love.


The WANTING....that would be from a place of LACK...as in you're gonna suck her dry mentally and emotionally
like a vampire.
Simply learn how to come from a place of fullfilment already..so that you may give love.

I love Sassy unconditionally....Other women can smell the unconditional love in me miles and miles away too.
 
A little bit too much information about the oral sex, LC, but I get you. And I understand I need to take the pussy off of the pedestal. I don't always act like that around girls, but it always seems like I can either be a good friend, and act normal, or be attracted to you, and act like I'm intimidated by you.

My sister said I'm scared of girls. Not exactly. I am scared of the ones I like more than friends.

I am good at fixing things around the house, too. I have a toolbox, and am always repairing something. I am the one who always puts things together and takes things apart. I installed appliances around the house, and just a second ago, I took the doorknob off of my 7 year old nephew's door, who had locked the door against me and my sister/his mom (told him I would break the door down, and instead took the doorknob off. He is very upset.)

I don't want to play women, though. I want to play WITH them, as in have lots of fun, but I don't want to break hearts. I am not a player, and never will be. I could never cheat on a girl with another girl, or get involved with a girl who's already involved with a boyfriend. As soon as I hear the word "boyfriend", my hands are off.
 
Well...Im also a hunter.lmao and a sharp shooter too.

Sarah comes to me...becuase Im drawn to women like Sassy.
Dealing with Sarah is like child's play compair to Sassy.
Sarah is just a younger version of sassy.

It's not all about sex....
When She reaches her hands out N just grab my hand and hold it to her heart
then cries on my shoulders. She hugs me everytime she sees me. The love is there.
Sarah loves me as a person as I love myself. Sarah trust me that Im not going to
take from her anymore than what's she's willing to give me. What she gives to me
she gives willingly. Yeah...I suppost as in the article...Freindship.
Yes..yes i know...she's half my age. And from the outside.. It dose look like i seduced her. hahahaa
But Sarah is a grown woman...she makes her own chioces....I grantee you this.
I cant tell her honeysuckle. She can be a major ***** when she wants to be...and she has.lmao
But Im also man enough to tell her to GTFO!!!...I dont need you and I dont give a fresia.
Yet she would come back to me, Because.....
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What is it with you and putting song lyrics into every discussion? Just wondering.

Is it a form of OCD? Is it tied to you posting pictures of your family on here? Because it really can be annoying at times. I love music, and discovering new music, but even though I have a collection of over 4,000 albums (vinyl/cd/tape/mp3), and have a Spotify account, I don't do this.

Sorry for the off topic.
 
Lmao....

Listen to what this woman has to said to this dude.
Listen closely. This woman had lived through a lot of honeysuckle.
Thats why she became who she is today.
She used to be a bar singer and was in an abusive relationship
He was actaully her about how to get laid....
The line "shower me with your love, babe"...was actaully what she told him.
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Please...stop...posting videos.

Thanks.

EDIT: Oh, and my sister was in an abusive relationship, several of them actually. She told me that her view on men is completely messed up, and she actually hates them now. She wants to be a spinster.

I could listen to my sister go on and on about how abused girls get into abusive relationships, but I actually want to find a nice girl who doesn't want that, thanks.
 
K....so you're see your life and your relationship with women throught your sistere's view on men?
How in hell do you think people get all dysfuntional????
They run on thier granparant's, parant's ideas and view of the world...
Old unworkable ideas and beliefs....

Good luck on finding a nice girl.
They're actually dime a dozen where I live...Some of them look super super hot too.
Been with plenty...They would be the cliggie, kiss my ass type of girls.
Suck me mentally and emotionally dry like a fucken vampire...cuase i have so much love to give....lmao
I rather go out with Bitches,...at least i can respect her as a person for not being my fucken doormat.

:p
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Ugh. Just stop, man. Stop.

I don't want to be a player. I just want one girl. One nice girl, who I will marry, and start a family with.

A friend of mine recently found a girl overseas, and that may be what I end up doing, since American women seem to all think that they can cheat on nice guys with players. The horror stories I hear about marriage in America are awful. At least foreign women will love you for you, instead of for shallow reasons.

But you keep on doing what you do. Just don't tell me how to ******* live my life. I appreciate advice that actually helps me, but when you spout bullshit about becoming a player, you've just lost me. Just ******* shut up.
 
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:
Ugh. Just stop, man. Stop.

I don't want to be a player. I just want one girl. One nice girl, who I will marry, and start a family with.

A friend of mine recently found a girl overseas, and that may be what I end up doing, since American women seem to all think that they can cheat on nice guys with players. The horror stories I hear about marriage in America are awful. At least foreign women will love you for you, instead of for shallow reasons.

But you keep on doing what you do. Just don't tell me how to ******* live my life. I appreciate advice that actually helps me, but when you spout bullshit about becoming a player, you've just lost me. Just ******* shut up.

LOL
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