Okay so about a year ago my best friend started dating my brother which my mom encouraged and I agreed upon. I never knew how it would be though.. Ever since they started dating she completely stopped inviting me over to her house, she always purposely sits on his lap and kisses him in front of me and he grabs her in gross places and she KNOWS I don't like that.. she literally does it like every two seconds in front of me. She watched me cry over a pageant I was in one night and didn't even come over and hug me or anything just watched and my brother was the one helping me instead. Then later I was crying my eyes out over a guy and my brother was the one to come in the bathroom and see if I was alright.. she didn't come in and made a point to laugh as loud as she could in the next room while I was sobbing. So stupidly enough, I moved in with them into an apartment right after highschool because the rent was cheap.. so she didnt pay rent and yet my brother would complain about me eating too much food (which i stopped eating any of it once he told me) and using her ipod charger when she wasnt around which she told me i could do... even though SHE wasnt paying rent and I was! So anyways me and my bro got into a big argument and I said some things about her and apparently he told her and she said she wanted me to be kicked out of the apartment. So later I apologized to her for everything and didnt even bring up to her that she had ignored me for the past year and tried to make me jealous constantly. in response to my apology She says "yeah I realize you were just jealous." ... She's always trying to slyly cut me down with remarks in private and when I had a boyfriend for once and brought him to the apartment for one night and sat in the living room watching tv for like 15 minutes she called my brother and was mad that we were out there and said it was "awkward". I eventually cussed her out and told her how I feel about her, even though I probably shouldn't have, and ever since she still holds a grudge. I've tried making up with her, even started calling her on the phone trying to be friends again, I thought we were okay but then I tried to come in my brothers room and asked if I could sit down and watch a movie with them and he looked at her as if to ask if I could stay and he said no you have to go, in MY own house.. saying I have to go. The whole situation is completely out of control. My whole family basically thinks shes a mean person in hiding but my brother cant see it and constantly blames me.
Do you think I am wrong for hating this girl?
Do you think I am wrong for hating this girl?