If your partner had an affair.....

[scotsgirl]

Chill out there bucko...
I am entitled to my opinion even if you don't agree with it.
And I am not condoning cheating, if you actually read what I posted, what I am saying is that humans make mistakes according to certain standards. I am not saying to go out and cheat on your partner, but I am saying that if it does happen, it's a mistake, a forgivable mistake, in my opinion. If it's something that's recurring, than I would say forget about the person, but if someone I trusted had a moment of weakness, I would forgive them and move on. And yes, staying loyal to someone does display alot of self-control and self-lessness, but we are not Chris Reeve, we are only animals.

Buckos back Lol. I didn't even disagree with your post. I am coming at it from a more personal point of view. I have been married 30 years, and yes I entered that partnership thinking it would be to the exclusion of others. I think words are easy but the reality is something else.

 

[Oceanmist23]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

 

[Zak]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

My reply is, I will kick your ass Ocean.

 

[Oceanmist23]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

My reply is, I will kick your ass Ocean.

That's it?

 

[Zak]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

My reply is, I will kick your ass Ocean.

That's it?

Okay! I m buying that cyanide again in case of emergency

 

[Oceanmist23]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

My reply is, I will kick your ass Ocean.

That's it?

Okay! I m buying that cyanide again in case of emergency

 

[Zak]

 

[Qui]

I'd dump his ass.
I'm pretty good at jumping ship on short notice, if I'm an a relationship and I see the red flags (which I do, sometimes when they're not even there) I'm gone so fast I don't give myself time to be upset about it until joe shmoe is history. That's not to say it doesn't hurt, I just would never let that stop me.
I don't connect to people so well, I freak when I get too deep in a relationship. If I care too much about someone, anything they could do as far as cheating or anything is just an excuse for me to leave.
I'd never cheat, for basically the same reason. If I'm not happy with someone, I'm gone.

 

[flamingosox]

i thought i'd forgiven my boyfriend for cheating on me... i really did. I mean i put behind me that he'd told me he was inlove with her and everything! But then... about two months ago, i didnt feel like sex and he turned around and said that this other girl (the one he cheated on me with) would give it to him... and that was it, game over! Boyfriend gone and although i thought it was impossible to unforgive, he is an exception and totally UNFORGIVEN!!

 

[DayvanCowboy]

In my mind they have already moved on, and there is no way I can forgive them. If it is someone that I have spent a long time with I would be hurt, but they seemed to already have made the decision that they need something else. So I would leave them, and never have a real relationship with them again. The trust is gone, and so is the love.

 

[Naleena]

I left my reply to this in another thread because my answer is the same as Naleena's lol

http://www.alonelylife.com/porn-in-relationships-t-5997.html#pid98585

My reply is, I will kick your ass Ocean.

That's it?

Okay! I m buying that cyanide again in case of emergency

You two are so adorable

 

[Oceanmist23]

Lmao

 

[Zak]

lol

 

[Spare]

I don't know. Trust is paramount. I think I would probably forgive them, since we are all fallible, but at the same time I'm pretty sure the relationship would be over.

If that makes any sense.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Oneday a farmer's horse ran away...
His nieghbor came over and said..."wow dude, I'm sorry you're going through that...that's bad man"
The farmer replied " IDK..if it's a good thing or a bad thing"

The next day...the horse ran back to the farm leading a pack of wild mustangs...
His nieghbor came over and said ..." wow dude...you're luck had changed..that's a good thing your horse ran away"
The farmer relpied " IDK..if it's a good thing or a bad thing....it is what it is."

The next day while riding one of the wild horse, the farmer's son fell off a horse and broke his leg.
His nieghbor came over and said " Oh man...that totally sucks, it's a bad thing you got those horses"
The farmer replied..." i don't fucken know..if it's a good thing or a bad thing..It is what it is."

The next day the army came to the farm recuiting young men for a war. The army saw his son with a broken leg and didn't draft him.
His nieghbor came over and said..."WOW....it's a good thing your son broke his leg"
The farmer replied " I don't fucken Know...It is what it is.."