Hello,
I've decided to post this cry for help, a message in a bottle, sort of. Perhaps I'll get lucky today, perhaps in ten years, perhaps never... but it's comforting that at least today I *tried* to do something, to change something.
I'm an unusual person, this I know. I have had trouble connecting/relating to other people my whole life, and I can make a good case that I've never met anyone who understood me. I feel like an alien, or someone from the future. My current explanation for this, a view shared by my therapist, is that I am exceptionally smart. Not just academically, but also emotionally, spiritually, whatever-ally.
If you are still reading, good for you! You managed to sidestep the path of 'exceptionally smart?! yeah right, keep deluding yourself buddy, I'll go spend my time elsewhere' . Yet, it's true. I really am that smart, and proportionally lonely as a result. Trust me when I tell you that people like smart, but they don't like 'too smart'.
I've been proven incapable of functioning in our current society, and so I spend the majority of my time at home. I honestly would like to contribute something truly meaningful to the world, but I have not found it yet. But first things first: In order to be able to fulfill my potential and create something extraordinary, I must first live.
I spent year after year searching for myself, and for answers to questions we all share. I have actually found both. I now know myself and love myself, as the person I was, am and will be. And I have some answers, not all of them, but some. For this post, I will focus on the question: What does a person need in life?
Besides the obvious answer of food/shelter/..., I have established a person needs to be connected to other people, if he or she wants to be happy. The stronger this connection, or the more people you are connected to, the better. Going back to my personal situation: When I was alone in my room all those years, I was completely disconnected, and 100 percent alone. In a way nothing has changed.
You see, I can't connect to most people even if I wanted to. I can help them, take care of them, listen to them, understand them... yet none of them can return the favor. Everyone stuck in his or her own life, unable to see the big picture. I *can* see this big picture, and it looks a bit like this: <3
You see, we are a young species, and still evolving. Eventually we'll outgrow all of our 'problems' and we will be at peace with ourselves, each other, other animals, the planet, and everything, really. I know this, because this calmness is already inside me. It's the result of years of thought and experience, but it's there and undeniably true. If I can feel it, we all can (and will, eventually).
So if I'm so peaceful, why a cry for help? Good question! You see, no matter how peaceful I am inside, it's still really lonely across that river. Every day I search the fields for others like me, people who have looked deep inside themselves and found the fundamental truth, but I have yet to find someone. I have tried to help people cross the river, but without success. Perhaps one can only cross alone.
I have a ton of free time, and I would like to spend it forging deep, meaningful connections with as many people as possible. A life alone is no life at all. I need you all, to love, to live, to share, to give. If you have the courage to look deep inside yourself and find out what you really want, I believe you'll find much of the same thing. And when you do, please contact me. We will have great adventures together.
P.S. please hurry
Regards,
Superman
I've decided to post this cry for help, a message in a bottle, sort of. Perhaps I'll get lucky today, perhaps in ten years, perhaps never... but it's comforting that at least today I *tried* to do something, to change something.
I'm an unusual person, this I know. I have had trouble connecting/relating to other people my whole life, and I can make a good case that I've never met anyone who understood me. I feel like an alien, or someone from the future. My current explanation for this, a view shared by my therapist, is that I am exceptionally smart. Not just academically, but also emotionally, spiritually, whatever-ally.
If you are still reading, good for you! You managed to sidestep the path of 'exceptionally smart?! yeah right, keep deluding yourself buddy, I'll go spend my time elsewhere' . Yet, it's true. I really am that smart, and proportionally lonely as a result. Trust me when I tell you that people like smart, but they don't like 'too smart'.
I've been proven incapable of functioning in our current society, and so I spend the majority of my time at home. I honestly would like to contribute something truly meaningful to the world, but I have not found it yet. But first things first: In order to be able to fulfill my potential and create something extraordinary, I must first live.
I spent year after year searching for myself, and for answers to questions we all share. I have actually found both. I now know myself and love myself, as the person I was, am and will be. And I have some answers, not all of them, but some. For this post, I will focus on the question: What does a person need in life?
Besides the obvious answer of food/shelter/..., I have established a person needs to be connected to other people, if he or she wants to be happy. The stronger this connection, or the more people you are connected to, the better. Going back to my personal situation: When I was alone in my room all those years, I was completely disconnected, and 100 percent alone. In a way nothing has changed.
You see, I can't connect to most people even if I wanted to. I can help them, take care of them, listen to them, understand them... yet none of them can return the favor. Everyone stuck in his or her own life, unable to see the big picture. I *can* see this big picture, and it looks a bit like this: <3
You see, we are a young species, and still evolving. Eventually we'll outgrow all of our 'problems' and we will be at peace with ourselves, each other, other animals, the planet, and everything, really. I know this, because this calmness is already inside me. It's the result of years of thought and experience, but it's there and undeniably true. If I can feel it, we all can (and will, eventually).
So if I'm so peaceful, why a cry for help? Good question! You see, no matter how peaceful I am inside, it's still really lonely across that river. Every day I search the fields for others like me, people who have looked deep inside themselves and found the fundamental truth, but I have yet to find someone. I have tried to help people cross the river, but without success. Perhaps one can only cross alone.
I have a ton of free time, and I would like to spend it forging deep, meaningful connections with as many people as possible. A life alone is no life at all. I need you all, to love, to live, to share, to give. If you have the courage to look deep inside yourself and find out what you really want, I believe you'll find much of the same thing. And when you do, please contact me. We will have great adventures together.
P.S. please hurry
Regards,
Superman