Tiger lily
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I'm wondering whether the reality of life is ment to feel like this, I know everyone has to go to work but it feels so un-natural that the most part of my day is spent in isolation behind a compuer. I'm not against abit of work to earn a living but I feel the lack of socail activity is killing me. I know other people go through it, yet some of these people at least have friends, or tehir own family, I dont have either of these. I have no problem talking to people, I'm pretty and I'm funny and intelligent I just find it so hard since leaving universiy to find any friends. All courses, clubs etc and full of people in their 40s. I'm not being ageist but how are you ment to meet a potencial partner when I have no idea where to attract these people? I'm only 25 but feel cut off from people. It seems the only way to survive life after uni is if you are lucky enough to have friends living close by still or you met your partner at uni, otherwise you get left by the road side.
Alot of people go to the big cities but I worry I'd be equally alone there, with no support, whereas now I have parents and brother. How can I feel happier? I feel I have no independance aswell. No previous relationship makes me feel like I'm a kid still which fustrates me so much.
Alot of people go to the big cities but I worry I'd be equally alone there, with no support, whereas now I have parents and brother. How can I feel happier? I feel I have no independance aswell. No previous relationship makes me feel like I'm a kid still which fustrates me so much.