blacksmith205
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Hello all. I found this site while looking for things to do and people to meet who are alone/single/30-something and maybe share some similar interests. I didn't realize the amount of those who are alone and feel alienated were so vast.
Anyhow, I'm weird. Really there isn't any other word to describe me. I make medieval armor & weapons from scratch as a hobby (hence the username blacksmith205), I fence (mainly 2 handed long sword), I make furniture, jewelry, I write, enjoy shooting and hunting, camping, off road cycling, I paint, play the guitar (mainly blues and rock), I'm a pretty good cook, I'm a history buff, math nerd, I love the desert and summer. I own a home, have a great job (blue collar but I love it)... I'm successful! But alone.
I live alone, I go out alone, the few friends I have are all married with kids or have a significant other, so I rarely see them anymore. I'm always the 5th wheel, if any of them remember I still exist and invite me.
I've joined clubs and did online dating, speed dating, clubbing, bar hopping, church (my work schedule doesn't allow me to go like I want), etc. and all to no avail. Oh I could pick up women and get my carnal desires met, but why, when there isn't any mental or emotional connection. I know there are plenty of you on here who feel the same way.
B.S.
Anyhow, I'm weird. Really there isn't any other word to describe me. I make medieval armor & weapons from scratch as a hobby (hence the username blacksmith205), I fence (mainly 2 handed long sword), I make furniture, jewelry, I write, enjoy shooting and hunting, camping, off road cycling, I paint, play the guitar (mainly blues and rock), I'm a pretty good cook, I'm a history buff, math nerd, I love the desert and summer. I own a home, have a great job (blue collar but I love it)... I'm successful! But alone.
I live alone, I go out alone, the few friends I have are all married with kids or have a significant other, so I rarely see them anymore. I'm always the 5th wheel, if any of them remember I still exist and invite me.
I've joined clubs and did online dating, speed dating, clubbing, bar hopping, church (my work schedule doesn't allow me to go like I want), etc. and all to no avail. Oh I could pick up women and get my carnal desires met, but why, when there isn't any mental or emotional connection. I know there are plenty of you on here who feel the same way.
B.S.