This post is about feeling lonely when you have no social life or relationship. Just a bit about my personal experience.
I have always been an outcast, having social problems in the past. My life took a twist before fixing myself which resulted in losing all friends that I had, I'm not actually super unpopular, but I just have no friends to be with in person.
At first it felt pretty lonely, but after a while, I started involving myself in various subjects that I like to engage with and learn about. Now I have all sorts to work on and have ambition because I set myself many goals for the future, things to be productive with. It's funny because I thought it would be a negative at first losing all my friends and having no one to socialize with, but for me, I have found a lack of social life actually incredibly liberating. This isn't to say I'm against having either a social life or relationship in the future, but I found positives to not having any friends or relationship. It means you can do what you want, look how you want, go where you want, and have absolutely zero fear of judgement from anyone or anything. You can reinvent yourself in any way you wish, any way you feel you would like.
While "loneliness" sucks if you are feeling that way, there are ways to negate the feeling. If you are lonely due to no social life, no relationship, no family, perhaps try and focus on some of the positives and find a bunch of things you enjoy and engage with them. Maybe you have things you want to improve upon about yourself... With no-one looking over your shoulder or judging from afar, you can have no fear to improve on these things, whether perhaps that's changing your looks, your style, your hobbies... Improve your life for the better, You have complete freedom to do whatever you want, become a strong person with no one to stop you or judge you.
I have always been an outcast, having social problems in the past. My life took a twist before fixing myself which resulted in losing all friends that I had, I'm not actually super unpopular, but I just have no friends to be with in person.
At first it felt pretty lonely, but after a while, I started involving myself in various subjects that I like to engage with and learn about. Now I have all sorts to work on and have ambition because I set myself many goals for the future, things to be productive with. It's funny because I thought it would be a negative at first losing all my friends and having no one to socialize with, but for me, I have found a lack of social life actually incredibly liberating. This isn't to say I'm against having either a social life or relationship in the future, but I found positives to not having any friends or relationship. It means you can do what you want, look how you want, go where you want, and have absolutely zero fear of judgement from anyone or anything. You can reinvent yourself in any way you wish, any way you feel you would like.
While "loneliness" sucks if you are feeling that way, there are ways to negate the feeling. If you are lonely due to no social life, no relationship, no family, perhaps try and focus on some of the positives and find a bunch of things you enjoy and engage with them. Maybe you have things you want to improve upon about yourself... With no-one looking over your shoulder or judging from afar, you can have no fear to improve on these things, whether perhaps that's changing your looks, your style, your hobbies... Improve your life for the better, You have complete freedom to do whatever you want, become a strong person with no one to stop you or judge you.