Naleena
Well-known member
I believe that in every relationship we have, we learn lessons about the relationship and ourselves. The more we experience different relationships, the more we know about what we want and don't want. I have read several places that it is good to make a list of qualities you want in a potential mate. You have "must have" qualities that your mate needs to possess and then "optional" things you would like for them to have but, can live without. Have any of you ever made a list of what you want in another person? I think it's good to have an idea of what you want in a relationship. Here is my list I had made a few months before I came here. I edited one line of it. What qualities do you want in your future mate?
Qualities in a mate
1. Must be a very compassionate and loving person. (must)
2. Must be a giving person and wants/seeks to help others. (must)
3. Is educated and intelligent. (must to a point/ negotiable)
4. Wants to be a better person and seeks to be by examining his life, learning, etc.. (must)
5. Is a spiritual and open minded person. (must)
6. Is empathic, understanding, and accepting. (must)
7. He is intuitive and a person who feels. (must)
8. He can cook, do manual guy things, and helps around the house. (must / negotiable)
9. He thinks I am the greatest and loves me for who I am. (must)
10. He is funny. (must)
11. He is my best friend. (must)
12. We are very much alike. (must)
13. He is tall (optional)
14. He is XXXX XX XXX. (edit) Ummm, that's for me to know...lol
15. He has plenty of hair, preferably long. (optional)
16. He is artistic. (optional)
Qualities in a mate
1. Must be a very compassionate and loving person. (must)
2. Must be a giving person and wants/seeks to help others. (must)
3. Is educated and intelligent. (must to a point/ negotiable)
4. Wants to be a better person and seeks to be by examining his life, learning, etc.. (must)
5. Is a spiritual and open minded person. (must)
6. Is empathic, understanding, and accepting. (must)
7. He is intuitive and a person who feels. (must)
8. He can cook, do manual guy things, and helps around the house. (must / negotiable)
9. He thinks I am the greatest and loves me for who I am. (must)
10. He is funny. (must)
11. He is my best friend. (must)
12. We are very much alike. (must)
13. He is tall (optional)
14. He is XXXX XX XXX. (edit) Ummm, that's for me to know...lol
15. He has plenty of hair, preferably long. (optional)
16. He is artistic. (optional)