Masturbation

[Restless soul]

More energy? Negative . How long do you guys got without doing it? I have to ask very important questions here..
Are you dating? In a sexual relationship? Have you cut out masterbation entirely? Indefinitely?

BBecause if you tell me you do it once or twice. I felt no positives. And if I did feel for whatever reason. I don't think if i masterbate one or two times within a month all that positive energy is gone? You sound like nofap redit people now.

You don't turn into a dribbling retard after you masterbate. On the contrary. Of anything might help you talk to girls without thinking off ass so strongly. Any thoughts you two big shots??

I don't know man.  I don't claim to be a big shot.  I'm not saying you get "super powers" and I do think NoFap exaggerates some things.  I'm only saying what I've experienced, adding on that it could very well all be placebo.  

Also I think it varies from person to person, like others have said.  Your experience might be different.

I on the other hand, do turn into a zombie afterwards, and it keeps my mind in the gutter too.  I do notice women's features more without it, but at the same time I'm better at enjoying non-sexual conversation with them too.

Ok fair enough. But don't you think at the same time. Abstaining for long periods can make a man more edgy, More tense..more frustrated naturally? Those being the negatives

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Afterall I did create this thread for others to give thier experiences

 

[TheSkaFish]

Ok fair enough. But don't you think at the same time. Abstaining for long periods can make a man more edgy, More tense..more frustrated naturally? Those being the negatives

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Afterall I did create this thread for others to give thier experiences

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I see what you mean, and I definitely recall being like that when I was younger, more edgy, more tense, more frustrated, angrier.  But this time it's different.  The less I think of masturbation/porn, the more even my mood is and the happier I am. Eventually, any urges have mostly gone away. I still want a girlfriend and I still have sex drive but I feel like it is different.

 

[Restless soul]

Ok fair enough. But don't you think at the same time. Abstaining for long periods can make a man more edgy, More tense..more frustrated naturally? Those being the negatives

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Afterall I did create this thread for others to give thier experiences

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I see what you mean, and I definitely recall being like that when I was younger, more edgy, more tense, more frustrated, angrier.  But this time it's different.  The less I think of masturbation/porn, the more even my mood is and the happier I am.  Eventually, any urges have mostly gone away.  I still want a girlfriend and I still have sex drive but I feel like it is different.

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What? How old are you 80? Even 80 year olds have crazy sex drives

 

[TheRealCallie]

Ok fair enough. But don't you think at the same time. Abstaining for long periods can make a man more edgy, More tense..more frustrated naturally? Those being the negatives

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Afterall I did create this thread for others to give thier experiences

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I see what you mean, and I definitely recall being like that when I was younger, more edgy, more tense, more frustrated, angrier.  But this time it's different.  The less I think of masturbation/porn, the more even my mood is and the happier I am.  Eventually, any urges have mostly gone away.  I still want a girlfriend and I still have sex drive but I feel like it is different.

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What? How old are you 80? Even 80 year olds have crazy sex drives

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only if they have viagra.  :club:

 

[TheSkaFish]

What? How old are you 80? Even 80 year olds have crazy sex drives

 I just turned 30 last year.  I have a sex drive, I just feel like I am more in control of it.  And I personally feel like masturbation/porn is boring, and I'm content with that.  Not a shot at you or anything, I'm just not interested in it.  The longer I go without it, the less compelled I am to go back, and I like it that way.

 

[Restless soul]

What? How old are you 80? Even 80 year olds have crazy sex drives

 I just turned 30 last year.  I have a sex drive, I just feel like I am more in control of it.  And I personally feel like masturbation/porn is boring, and I'm content with that.  Not a shot at you or anything, I'm just not interested in it.  The longer I go without it, the less compelled I am to go back, and I like it that way.

Thanks for sharing. I am 38. It's tough being single. Not intimate. I hear what you are saying. But I do feel latley I am more in control of it. And that was really the idea here. For the person who feels the need to do it now and then.

And some already said. Go for it. No big deal.

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Of course I see the good points and bad.
If someone is going to substitute porn and masturbating for women. BAD. but if they don't and can limit that. Not so bad?

You decide

 

[TheSkaFish]

Thanks for sharing. I am 38. It's tough being single. Not intimate. I hear what you are saying. But I do feel latley I am more in control of it. And that was really the idea here. For the person who feels the need to do it now and then.

And some already said. Go for it. No big deal.

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Of course I see the good points and bad.
If someone is going to substitute porn and masturbating for women. BAD. but if they don't and can limit that. Not so bad?

You decide

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I hear you.  It's tough being single and not intimate for me too.  I just wonder when it's going to end.  When I was in high school, no girlfriend was okay. Even college, I started feeling, well, it would be nice but I can wait.  After that it's started to get, like...okay, when's it going to happen?  IS it ever going to happen?  And it's not like I was substituting masturbation/porn for hooking up, I've never hooked up and never had a relationship.  

I try to tell myself that one day I will learn to be good enough.  I'm just not there yet.

 

[BeyondShy]

only if they have viagra.  :club:

Hahahahahahahaha

 

[Restless soul]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Is there video available?

 

[TheSkaFish]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

 

[Restless soul]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

I am sure you guys would like some feedback. 

You would hate to see me on the news? That I raped some girl? Right

 

[TheSkaFish]

I don't get it?

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

I am sure you guys would like some feedback. 

You would hate to see me on the news? That I raped some girl? Right

reason #1938023985038024 to seek help from a therapist.

 

[BeyondShy]

reason #1938023985038024 to seek help from a therapist.

Hahahahaha

 

[reynard_muldrake]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

I am sure you guys would like some feedback. 

You would hate to see me on the news? That I raped some girl? Right

I'm... not sure why you needed to take it to that level. Please explain why.

 

[Restless soul]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

I am sure you guys would like some feedback. 

You would hate to see me on the news? That I raped some girl? Right

I'm... not sure why you needed to take it to that level. Please explain why.

You mean give a play by play? I feel so close to the members on this forum. Especially the ones that participate in my threads. Sometimes I even have a laugh. I am able to poke fun at myself. I take solace in knowing I can vent here.

But as far as my feelings about not masterbating and then masterbating? Zero diffrence. Literally. Mood is same. Energy same. Just same. I guess when you are as low as you can get. Can't really feel any worse. That's how I see it. 

I think I was born into the wrong. Place. Time. Religion ( jewish) you know how many restrictions you have being jewish? Raised religious? With the guilt? More than muslims have. More rules they have. Not that I am religious now.
But you can see how that too can contribute to being lonley and cut off.

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What do you think about what I just wrote?

 

[SofiasMami]

I am sorry guys i have to do it

Nothing to apologize for.  It's a "whatever works for you" type of thing.

I am sure you guys would like some feedback. 

You would hate to see me on the news? That I raped some girl? Right

I'm... not sure why you needed to take it to that level. Please explain why.

You mean give a play by play? I feel so close to the members on this forum. Especially the ones that participate in my threads. Sometimes I even have a laugh. I am able to poke fun at myself. I take solace in knowing I can vent here.

But as far as my feelings about not masterbating and then masterbating? Zero diffrence. Literally. Mood is same. Energy same. Just same. I guess when you are as low as you can get. Can't really feel any worse. That's how I see it. 

I think I was born into the wrong. Place. Time. Religion ( jewish) you know how many restrictions you have being jewish? Raised religious? With the guilt? More than muslims have. More rules they have. Not that I am religious now.
But you can see how that too can contribute to being lonley and cut off.

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What do you think about what I just wrote?

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I think I don't understand your point. What is it? And you were raised religious? Meh. I was raised Catholic. Plenty of guilt there but I got over it.

Also, rape at its core is about a deviant bid for power, not about sex.

 

[Restless soul]

Does renard understand my point.

The religous thing i added was nothing related to even masterbation. It was rewarding a plethora of other restrictions.
Food. Marrying outside religion ( thats a biggy )

Why cant i see the forums on the main page? Anyone?

 

[Restless soul]

I just threw religion in. Because i can see now how it plays
A role in my lonliness and feeling isolated. Nothing to do with masterbation. Not really at least