Locke
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I'm supposed to hang out with a group of people next weekend - my girlfriend, her two brothers and their girlfriends. I've met her brothers before and they're nice enough, but they talk.....a lot. You know, like how people who aren't crippled by shyness and anxiety tend to do.
I'm not comfortable talking to even one person half the time, my mind just goes blank. This will be several people who all know each other well. I don't know how to fit into a group like that. I know what's going to happen - they'll all laugh and joke, have conversations and whatever else, and I'll just clam up. I can't carry on a conversation with that many people. I'll find the darkest corner possible and sit there quietly all night, pretending that I'm having fun. Meanwhile, my girlfriend's brothers will probably be wondering why their sister is dating a mute nutcase.
I really don't want to go, but my girlfriend made it clear that she wants me there. So, um.....any advice? Should I just figure out a way to get out of it? Maybe I should drink heavily before going?
Is injuring myself so that I'm in the hospital on that day a good option? Because that actually does sound like it would be less painful.
I'm not comfortable talking to even one person half the time, my mind just goes blank. This will be several people who all know each other well. I don't know how to fit into a group like that. I know what's going to happen - they'll all laugh and joke, have conversations and whatever else, and I'll just clam up. I can't carry on a conversation with that many people. I'll find the darkest corner possible and sit there quietly all night, pretending that I'm having fun. Meanwhile, my girlfriend's brothers will probably be wondering why their sister is dating a mute nutcase.
I really don't want to go, but my girlfriend made it clear that she wants me there. So, um.....any advice? Should I just figure out a way to get out of it? Maybe I should drink heavily before going?
Is injuring myself so that I'm in the hospital on that day a good option? Because that actually does sound like it would be less painful.