A few days ago my gf brought up going to Idaho together for a trip, she was excited and wanted to go this weekend.
She would need to miss one day of school (college).
I have my reservations... I know she's not doing well in school (skipping, lates,etc.), plus she has a big assignment due the following week that she's kinda brushing aside. Seems like I'm more worried about her class than she is. I told her maybe she should do her homework first, I even offered to help her with it. In fact, I suggested we should spend this weekend doing the homework, and going another time.
She then said we could go the next weekend if I wanted to, that it really didn't matter to her.
I feel like I'm behaving like her dad here. I really shouldn't be telling her how to do things, she's an adult, but then again I feel kinda bad telling her to skip class.
Any ideas? Should we just go, and should i stop acting like a dad and more like a bf? thanks!
She would need to miss one day of school (college).
I have my reservations... I know she's not doing well in school (skipping, lates,etc.), plus she has a big assignment due the following week that she's kinda brushing aside. Seems like I'm more worried about her class than she is. I told her maybe she should do her homework first, I even offered to help her with it. In fact, I suggested we should spend this weekend doing the homework, and going another time.
She then said we could go the next weekend if I wanted to, that it really didn't matter to her.
I feel like I'm behaving like her dad here. I really shouldn't be telling her how to do things, she's an adult, but then again I feel kinda bad telling her to skip class.
Any ideas? Should we just go, and should i stop acting like a dad and more like a bf? thanks!