unlucky in life
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sorry i asked for help
Callie said:I believe your problem is NOT that other people supposedly "hate" you, but that YOU hate YOURSELF.
You need to stop focusing on what other people think of you and start focusing on what you think of yourself. Regardless of what you do or anyone else does, you won't be happy until you are happy with yourself.
unlucky in life said:sorry for annoying but all i have know is hated and rejection by all my life men i don't know why i have nothing to them .its the only treatment i know
unlucky in life said:but men have told they rather other female in the world but most of them are very skinny and very pretty
men like them on looks alone and nothing but with me no matter what i do .its a case just stop don't even try you rejected
even in facebook good looking female will not be rejected by good looking guy he might know nothing about her and keep her on any way.
but unattractive female won't even get the time of day from the exactly same guy
unattractive girl might very good personalty and smart
but good looking girl doesn't have personality's much smarts yet he keep on conversation can dull as dirty water
unattractive girl can talk about any thing and make people laugh he rejects her but the good looking girl has saw dust for brains
its just example
unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't stand like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection.
because it fat and not slim like other women. yet i put my self down i did Argentina i have problems with my self.
like my looks and weight and been social retarded in public and shy and quiet
unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
Luna said:unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
I hope you are not just making fun and pretending to take advice.
Please be serious.
I used to hate my looks A LOT...I thought it was the reason for EVERYTHING bad that was happening to me.
I used to cry every time I had to go outside because I was afraid people would see my face.
I know what it's like when I say that I have been miserable like you before...but it can be improved upon!
I don't feel like that anymore!
The thing is - if you are happy with yourself; you will be more comfortable with things in life that don't work out...because you will be strong.
I still don't 100% like everything about myself and it's been several years - it is a problem that will not be fixed overnight! You have to work at it!
What are you doing right now to help yourself?
unlucky in life said:Luna said:unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
I hope you are not just making fun and pretending to take advice.
Please be serious.
I used to hate my looks A LOT...I thought it was the reason for EVERYTHING bad that was happening to me.
I used to cry every time I had to go outside because I was afraid people would see my face.
I know what it's like when I say that I have been miserable like you before...but it can be improved upon!
I don't feel like that anymore!
The thing is - if you are happy with yourself; you will be more comfortable with things in life that don't work out...because you will be strong.
I still don't 100% like everything about myself and it's been several years - it is a problem that will not be fixed overnight! You have to work at it!
What are you doing right now to help yourself?
well it very slow subtle process trying to lose weight is very very hard,i got my broken teeth fixed, i am dying my hair different colour a may be long layered to slim my face it purpose. some kind coloured make foundation organic lip colour pink subtle. a very very slow process
unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
unlucky in life said:Luna said:unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
I hope you are not just making fun and pretending to take advice.
Please be serious.
I used to hate my looks A LOT...I thought it was the reason for EVERYTHING bad that was happening to me.
I used to cry every time I had to go outside because I was afraid people would see my face.
I know what it's like when I say that I have been miserable like you before...but it can be improved upon!
I don't feel like that anymore!
The thing is - if you are happy with yourself; you will be more comfortable with things in life that don't work out...because you will be strong.
I still don't 100% like everything about myself and it's been several years - it is a problem that will not be fixed overnight! You have to work at it!
What are you doing right now to help yourself?
well it very slow subtle process trying to lose weight is very very hard,i got my broken teeth fixed, i am dying my hair different colour a may be long layered to slim my face it purpose. some kind coloured make foundation organic lip colour pink subtle. a very very slow process
Luna said:unlucky in life said:Luna said:unlucky in life said:i have stupid question how do i like some thing i don't can't like my face even on computer screen i hate reflection
I hope you are not just making fun and pretending to take advice.
Please be serious.
I used to hate my looks A LOT...I thought it was the reason for EVERYTHING bad that was happening to me.
I used to cry every time I had to go outside because I was afraid people would see my face.
I know what it's like when I say that I have been miserable like you before...but it can be improved upon!
I don't feel like that anymore!
The thing is - if you are happy with yourself; you will be more comfortable with things in life that don't work out...because you will be strong.
I still don't 100% like everything about myself and it's been several years - it is a problem that will not be fixed overnight! You have to work at it!
What are you doing right now to help yourself?
well it very slow subtle process trying to lose weight is very very hard,i got my broken teeth fixed, i am dying my hair different colour a may be long layered to slim my face it purpose. some kind coloured make foundation organic lip colour pink subtle. a very very slow process
I don't think there's anything wrong with being fat - but if it would make you feel better about yourself then go for it!
It took me a lot of trying and time to lose weight. You have to make sure you don't "cheat" or lose track! Stick to it and you WILL see results.
It can be done!
*THESE RESULTS YOU CANNOT GET SURGERY BECAUSE IT COULD KILL YOU! THIS WOMAN WORKED HARD.*
Long hair does help to slim the face...my face is "big" but people don't tend to notice it with the long hair and bangs.
You can try to use a bit of eye makeup as well! Draw attention to your eyes...also, you can groom yourself through shaving, waxing etc and see if it makes you feel better.
Buy a few new outfits and try a new style!
You will feel uncomfortable at first...but you have to keep trying.
Don't give up...it took me a few years of trying but I'm happy that I tried as opposed to doing nothing!
What you CAN do is TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR OR FIND A COUNSELOR.
These people are professionals! They have talked to many, many people that feel the same way as you! They will help you as you make progress! They will LISTEN to everything you have to say! It will be good for you to have face-to-face conversation with a person about your problems as opposed to creating thread after thread on the internet on the same issue.
I'm really glad that you responded...it's the first step. Focus on your GOALS and stay positive and you will succeed!
If you are negative - you will not succeed because it will make you give up!
Don't give up!
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