Innerpeace
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I hate to judge other people as I'm definately not perfect and many would probably consider me a loser as I have no real people I call friends, never had a girlfriend and I'm 23.
anyways I do have some good qualities, I'm working hard in school and graduating with a B.A this summer and might go to lawschool afterwards if my grades are good enough if not I'm going to work for while in a related field.
anyways I work part time at a retail kind of job right now and I met some guys at work that want to hang out sometimes and invite me out. They are all nice people but lately I don't really feel like hanging out with them because they just seem like losers. i'm in my early 20s and these guys are all in their late 20s and live at home get paid min wage, talk about girls all day and non of them have girlfriends and all they do for "fun" is hang around drink and talk about girls.
am I bad for judging these people? I think they are all good guys as in good hearted people but I don't really feel a connection with these people.
so it's weird I have no friends and I really want to have friends and go out and have fun but here these people are inviting me out and I have gone out with them in the past but I don't really feel like it anymore.
what do you guys think? to me it seems like these guys are all wasting their lives away, maybe I just have higher standards for success.
anyways I do have some good qualities, I'm working hard in school and graduating with a B.A this summer and might go to lawschool afterwards if my grades are good enough if not I'm going to work for while in a related field.
anyways I work part time at a retail kind of job right now and I met some guys at work that want to hang out sometimes and invite me out. They are all nice people but lately I don't really feel like hanging out with them because they just seem like losers. i'm in my early 20s and these guys are all in their late 20s and live at home get paid min wage, talk about girls all day and non of them have girlfriends and all they do for "fun" is hang around drink and talk about girls.
am I bad for judging these people? I think they are all good guys as in good hearted people but I don't really feel a connection with these people.
so it's weird I have no friends and I really want to have friends and go out and have fun but here these people are inviting me out and I have gone out with them in the past but I don't really feel like it anymore.
what do you guys think? to me it seems like these guys are all wasting their lives away, maybe I just have higher standards for success.