not good

[Wildman]

i'l try somewhere else

 

[okidoke]

you're leaving? has something put you off, disappointed you?

 

[Wildman]

you're leaving? has something put you off, disappointed you?

No, not leaving. I poured out my lonely soul about things like feeling invisible, and nobody responded. So I was overcome by sadness and deleted the text, and tried on another forum.

I know the world doesn't revolve around me, but in that moment I just needed the universe to acknowledge me, but it just stared blankly.

 

[Bam111]

I am not the universe I am one lowly person, but I acknowledge you, I see you, and I am here. I can listen to you I didn't see your post last time maybe if you like you can message me, I am here to help.

 

[Wildman]

I am not the universe I am one lowly person, but I acknowledge you, I see you, and I am here. I can listen to you I didn't see your post last time maybe if you like you can message me, I am here to help.

Thanks

 

[TheRealCallie]

Sometimes the forum is a little slower and it takes people a while to notice every post. I know it's hard, but try to give it some time. Just because there isn't a quick reply doesn't mean people don't notice you. It just means they haven't gotten to that thread yet or they want to think about things for a while before they respond.

I did not see the thread before you edited it, so I didn't reply.

 

[Bam111]

hope you will take me up on my offer. Its not best to talk about personal things in public settings others don't feel the same sometimes when ever your comfortable you can reach out to me

 

[TheSkaFish]

No, not leaving. I poured out my lonely soul about things like feeling invisible, and nobody responded. So I was overcome by sadness and deleted the text, and tried on another forum.

I know the world doesn't revolve around me, but in that moment I just needed the universe to acknowledge me, but it just stared blankly.

Sometimes you have to give it time before people start engaging with you.

Or, you have to do more engaging first.

Not that I am "blaming" you - it's just that it seems to be the way it goes.
But either way, I hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[Bam111]

but the choice is up to you have a great day

 

[TheRealCallie]

hope you will take me up on my offer. Its not best to talk about personal things in public settings others don't feel the same sometimes when ever your comfortable you can reach out to me

I have to disagree with this. You may not always get the answers you want, but you DO get more perspectives on the issue, whereas in PM, you only get one. The more options you get, the more likely you will find something that works. It's not always about hearing what you want to hear, sometimes you need to hear what you don't want to hear.

 

[Wildman]

Sometimes the forum is a little slower and it takes people a while to notice every post. I know it's hard, but try to give it some time. Just because there isn't a quick reply doesn't mean people don't notice you. It just means they haven't gotten to that thread yet or they want to think about things for a while before they respond.

I did not see the thread before you edited it, so I didn't reply.

I may have been too quick, I think I'm a bit depressed/desperate.

 

[Bam111]

sorry but I don't debate. if that works for others that's fine just offering a safer environment this is my last post here have a wonderful day. hope to hear from you if not I hope that others will help you, I am sure there are others that will take care.

 

[Wildman]

Yes, I was feeling a bit hopeless I guess and too sensitive.

 

[orangecat]

No, not leaving. I poured out my lonely soul about things like feeling invisible, and nobody responded. So I was overcome by sadness and deleted the text, and tried on another forum.

I know the world doesn't revolve around me, but in that moment I just needed the universe to acknowledge me, but it just stared blankly.

I think I remember reading your post, I would have responded but I myself have ups and downs so just not up to it.

If I recall correctly you were struggling with relationships. The part where when you're trying to get to know the other better (or was it the other way round?) the conversation won't go further than that. You also wondered if there was any "red flags" in your post. At that time of reading, I don't see any red flags. Other than that I don't know you well enough to form an opinion.

 

[Wildman]

I think I remember reading your post, I would have responded but I myself have ups and downs so just not up to it.

If I recall correctly you were struggling with relationships. The part where when you're trying to get to know the other better (or was it the other way round?) the conversation won't go further than that. You also wondered if there was any "red flags" in your post. At that time of reading, I don't see any red flags. Other than that I don't know you well enough to form an opinion.

I struggle to communicate if I can't see the other person, so I end up being ghosted and feeling 'wrong' or irrelevant. Thanks for the reply.

 

[TheRealCallie]

sorry but I don't debate. if that works for others that's fine just offering a safer environment this is my last post here have a wonderful day. hope to hear from you if not I hope that others will help you, I am sure there are others that will take care.

Wasn't debating. I was merely stating my opinion. There's nothing to debate there. You have your opinion, I have mine, but saying what's "best" and "safer" is quite unfair because it's not always true.
But hey, you do you. I won't continue the debate you started from this point on.