Innerpeace
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Okay heres the deal. I've been working with this girl I probably see once a week at work for over a year now, i'm in university, she is in her last year of highschool and just turned 18, i'm 23.
Anyways I've talked to her at work for a long time now and I kept on getting a feeling that she likes me and I also really like a lot, like had a big crush on her for a long time now.
Anyways I gave up on trying to eventually ask her out because she'd give me mixed signals. Some weeks she'd come around me a lot at work and we'd talk a lot and other weeks she'd pretend like she doesn't even care or not even come around me.
anyways I know she doesn't hate me but I don't know if she actually likes me more than thinking i'm just a nice guy which I am. She once was telling me at work about how she doesn't like some people at work and then told me how she likes me.
ok anyways I signed up for facebook the other day and the next day she added me as a friend (I didn't request it she added me). she probably just saw me in the field of people you may know form work etc and added me.
so I went to her wall and posted and said hey happy bday because it was her baday recently.
then I send her a private message lol. And now I'm not sure if I screwed up. I said hey blank how's it going. I haven't seen you at work for a while now you never work weekends anymore. And then I said I really miss seeing you at work..... and you should work weekends.
I also wrote it partly in german lol because I speak german and she is german but we only speak english at work. is that weird? I don't know why I wrote some german in there lol.
anyways I hadn't seen her for 2-3 weeks now because she hadn't worked weekends but I checked my work schedule and she works this weekend so I will see her on sunday......
when I see her this sunday she may feel uncomortable maybe when she first sees me after 3 weeks and I sent her a message saying that I missed seeing her at work?
Again i'm not sure if she actually likes me or not. she sent a lot of messages to me that she does like me and hinting she wants to date me I think. like once she sat next to me at lunch and discussed with her girlfriend about how she'd like to date an older guy in his 20s. would that be a hint she was trying to give me? I think so.
but then the week after at work I asked her if she wants to come to lunch with me and go for a drive to get food and she asked me ' do I have too?" and said no only if you want to and she said ok then I dont' want to.
so when I see her on sunday should I just try and stay relaxed and say "hey so got my message" or bring it up casually or not bring it up at all?
it's not like i told her that I love her or anything I just said I missed seeign her at work. but she knows I like her.
I dunno maybe I'm just overthinking this.
I really like this girl so I thought I should just tell her I missed seeing her at work which I did.
it's stupid that I should feel embarassed for sharing my feelings about her. is telling someone you miss them or like them something to feel embarassed about?
I don't think so but i"m still scared about seeing her for some reason.
Anyways I've talked to her at work for a long time now and I kept on getting a feeling that she likes me and I also really like a lot, like had a big crush on her for a long time now.
Anyways I gave up on trying to eventually ask her out because she'd give me mixed signals. Some weeks she'd come around me a lot at work and we'd talk a lot and other weeks she'd pretend like she doesn't even care or not even come around me.
anyways I know she doesn't hate me but I don't know if she actually likes me more than thinking i'm just a nice guy which I am. She once was telling me at work about how she doesn't like some people at work and then told me how she likes me.
ok anyways I signed up for facebook the other day and the next day she added me as a friend (I didn't request it she added me). she probably just saw me in the field of people you may know form work etc and added me.
so I went to her wall and posted and said hey happy bday because it was her baday recently.
then I send her a private message lol. And now I'm not sure if I screwed up. I said hey blank how's it going. I haven't seen you at work for a while now you never work weekends anymore. And then I said I really miss seeing you at work..... and you should work weekends.
I also wrote it partly in german lol because I speak german and she is german but we only speak english at work. is that weird? I don't know why I wrote some german in there lol.
anyways I hadn't seen her for 2-3 weeks now because she hadn't worked weekends but I checked my work schedule and she works this weekend so I will see her on sunday......
when I see her this sunday she may feel uncomortable maybe when she first sees me after 3 weeks and I sent her a message saying that I missed seeing her at work?
Again i'm not sure if she actually likes me or not. she sent a lot of messages to me that she does like me and hinting she wants to date me I think. like once she sat next to me at lunch and discussed with her girlfriend about how she'd like to date an older guy in his 20s. would that be a hint she was trying to give me? I think so.
but then the week after at work I asked her if she wants to come to lunch with me and go for a drive to get food and she asked me ' do I have too?" and said no only if you want to and she said ok then I dont' want to.
so when I see her on sunday should I just try and stay relaxed and say "hey so got my message" or bring it up casually or not bring it up at all?
it's not like i told her that I love her or anything I just said I missed seeign her at work. but she knows I like her.
I dunno maybe I'm just overthinking this.
I really like this girl so I thought I should just tell her I missed seeing her at work which I did.
it's stupid that I should feel embarassed for sharing my feelings about her. is telling someone you miss them or like them something to feel embarassed about?
I don't think so but i"m still scared about seeing her for some reason.