I am pro at hiding my emotion when in social situations because my friends have always been the types that keep emotion to themselves. They are very rational and logical types of people who never ever talk about anything emotion related. Nearly all of them including myself are all logical computer boffins and musicians.
One of the main reasons why I had this mask, and still do to a point, is not to shield myself though... It is because I always thought that my friends would not want to be around someone who was negative and unhappy, someone who shows emotion.
Ofcourse most people do not want to be around someone like that right? I get on with my friends well and have a laugh with them so I do actually like to be with them and being with them does sometimes cheers me up inside.
It is a funny situation when it comes to music aswell as I am a musician. My friends are incredibly logical about music and some would maybe even ridicule them and say they are too mathmatical about it. To a sense I would even kind of agree with that but because of this logical upbringing it does mean they are very good at logically structured music and music theory.
To give you an example, just like some classically trained musicians, they can not improvise, especially something like moody blues, to save their life... They can not play their instruments with an emotional dynamic.
I am different when it comes to this because I really enjoy playing all sorts of styles with different emotional values and enjoy improvising or writing in different styles adding different emotional texture to the mix. I do know theory well too though and I am actually naturally very logical so I can play strict logical music very well and I can explain WHY something would give a specific emotional texture through music theory, name the notes in any key etc etc.
It is like having "outward indifference" in the context of what I am doing musically infront of people. I will never ever let myself go emotionally infront of multiple people socially or musically.
Now what I am getting at here is that, because I am so introverted and I wear this emotion mask I tend to nearly always step back and just play what I know theoretically when with my friends...
It is funny because at home I will put on a track and lose myself in it. I have written some incredibly emotional music in the past and I believe that is actually the main point in music... creating melody and harmony to give specific emotional value.
I just thought I would write this because this is abit of a dilemma for me in some ways... Working and having an interest in something I can only show my true colours on when I am by myself. Being this very shy, introverted person holds me back so much when it comes to my profession.