Just needing to get some steam off!
Why, just why?!
I spoke to this boy a few years back, I got to know him, I started to like him, as the stories go, he went off to university, and we did stay in touch at first, claimed with both liked each other blahblahblah.
After about a year, we drifted apart, hardly spoke anymore, I've moved on, so has he clearly. He started chatting to me via facebook again last night, we had a phonecall, caught up on things had a nice chat blahblah.
tonight he decides he wants to proclaim his love for me, which fair enough nothing against, I gave an honest answer, and said youknow, it's been a few years since we've spoken properly, alot has changed, including me, I look different obviously, I think differently, and simply, my personality has changed, so I probably aren't the girl you used to like and stuff, but still accepted what he said. He then asked me how I felt, and being honest, I said obviously I wasn't sure, I'd moved on from that blahblah.
so he took it upon himself to ask me, "do I even care anymore?" honest answer again, I told him I didn't care for him more than in a friendship perspective, so guess what response I got! "oh fine, suppose I'll stop texting you, good luck with your life, goodbye." I argued and said don't be like that, of course I still want you in my life, and again the responses I was getting were very blunt, harsh comments.
WTAF!
am I heartless or unfair in saying he acted like a complete utter child, and his feelings couldn't of been that real for me if he just decided not to keep in touch? It just baffles me the way I hear nothing from him in years, and then BOOM! I'm a ***** for not being head over heels for him now? Utter knob!
rant, over.
Why, just why?!
I spoke to this boy a few years back, I got to know him, I started to like him, as the stories go, he went off to university, and we did stay in touch at first, claimed with both liked each other blahblahblah.
After about a year, we drifted apart, hardly spoke anymore, I've moved on, so has he clearly. He started chatting to me via facebook again last night, we had a phonecall, caught up on things had a nice chat blahblah.
tonight he decides he wants to proclaim his love for me, which fair enough nothing against, I gave an honest answer, and said youknow, it's been a few years since we've spoken properly, alot has changed, including me, I look different obviously, I think differently, and simply, my personality has changed, so I probably aren't the girl you used to like and stuff, but still accepted what he said. He then asked me how I felt, and being honest, I said obviously I wasn't sure, I'd moved on from that blahblah.
so he took it upon himself to ask me, "do I even care anymore?" honest answer again, I told him I didn't care for him more than in a friendship perspective, so guess what response I got! "oh fine, suppose I'll stop texting you, good luck with your life, goodbye." I argued and said don't be like that, of course I still want you in my life, and again the responses I was getting were very blunt, harsh comments.
WTAF!
am I heartless or unfair in saying he acted like a complete utter child, and his feelings couldn't of been that real for me if he just decided not to keep in touch? It just baffles me the way I hear nothing from him in years, and then BOOM! I'm a ***** for not being head over heels for him now? Utter knob!
rant, over.
