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Azariah said:
Aren't you still a virgin RealCallie? jk. But really how many sizes have you tried on if I may ask lol?

That's kind of a "dick" question. 

Get it?

 :D
 
Don't believe anything a woman tells you. They are all liars. Of course it's all about size with them.
 
It's a likely inference from the article I linked to a page or two ago, that the hoo-ha canal is unlikely to be much deeper than the length of most peens that are not as lengthy.

It also says that the top 1/3 of the hoo-ha canal is most important for enjoyment. I don't think you guys have anything to worry about.

That is, unless WebMD just makes stuff up. It's kind of their job to know this sort of thing.
 
TheRealCallie said:
Jafo said:
Don't believe anything a woman tells you. They are all liars. Of course it's all about size with them.

Yeah, and men are saints who never lie or do anything wrong.  It's all on the horrible women.  :rolleyes:

I this matter, yes.
 
MikeyLE80 said:
It's a likely inference from the article I linked to a page or two ago, that the hoo-ha canal is unlikely to be much deeper than the length of most peens that are not as lengthy.

It also says that the top 1/3 of the hoo-ha canal is most important for enjoyment. I don't think you guys have anything to worry about.

That is, unless WebMD just makes stuff up. It's kind of their job to know this sort of thing.

Precisely this.  Which is why, it's NOT about how ******* big you are, it's about how you use it. 
Some people just need to stop making excuses.....
 
TheRealCallie said:
Jafo said:
Don't believe anything a woman tells you. They are all liars. Of course it's all about size with them.

Yeah, and men are saints who never lie or do anything wrong.  It's all on the horrible women.  :rolleyes:

I agree with half this statement. Cant read the other half, the light of my halo is making the screen too bright.
 
Richard_39 said:
TheRealCallie said:
Jafo said:
Don't believe anything a woman tells you. They are all liars. Of course it's all about size with them.

Yeah, and men are saints who never lie or do anything wrong.  It's all on the horrible women.  :rolleyes:

I agree with half this statement. Cant read the other half, the light of my halo is making the screen too bright.

Hilarious.
 
These are not excuses, these are insecurities.
Even though reassurance is helpful, people might not accept it because their experience have proved it differently to them. Excuse for what exactly?!

argh, this place is ******* toxic
 
DarkSelene said:
These are not excuses, these are insecurities.
Even though reassurance is helpful, people might not accept it because their experience have proved it differently to them. Excuse for what exactly?!

Yeap, and then they don't care to listen to anyone at all, because what they've been through "proves them right," and thus the cycle continues. It's frustrating to even read from folks. I can't imaging keeping myself in such a cycle. You'd think at some point, they'd want to break it, but it's probably easier to stay in a loop and the bubble of insecurities for many people.
 
^Easy to say when the onus isn't on you to satisfy a partner. Whether sex is good or not is 100% down to what men are and 'do with it'. Since you aren't subjected to this pressure of course you're free to blame them for being insecure.
 
The video... it was interesting that they ALL said 8 inches. You would think there would be a little more variety, unless there was some coaching going on behind the scenes. He didn't really talk to that many, but most of the girls looked like they were just joking around. Only two actually looked sort of serious about what they were talking about.

If we're going to go to videos of drunk college girls for evidence, why don't you go looking up statistics for vibrator sales or something that would be a little more accurate. I don't actually want to see that, which is why I didn't look it up. People come in different sizes. What's good for one person isn't necessarily going to be good for the next.
 
Coming into this knowing nothing at all about the conversation, if your woman gives half a fresia what size your dick is and it's an issue for her, find another woman worth your time cause she aint that into you as a person and it won't last anyways. If it's -you- that has a problem with the size of your dick, I can't help you. Mine's below average, but I still like it cause it's mine. It's okay that it bothers you because you're a human being. Try to find someone to be with that it doesn't bother you to talk about it with. When a woman understands your insecurities she may be apt to give you a pep talk. It may come off as patronizing, but she probably just wants to make you feel good about yourself so you can have a good time with her instead of being worried about yourself. There's not a **** one of us on this planet that's built the exact same as the next one over. I don't agree at all that it's entirely on the man to whether or not the sex is good. If you're feeling pressured, it's probably going to be bad regardless. That's a https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/vicious circle

It's not about how big it is, nor is it about how you use it nearly as much as it's about how who your with perceives you and how they feel about you. You can't build a house without a foundation. After that, the two (or two hundred, I'm not judging) of you can learn how to better please one another.

If it's just meaningless sex you're after, then don't worry about it either way. Do your thing and let her do hers.

And no, I'm no expert. I've only been with two women. Ever. Both had far more experience than me. In fact I'm pretty sure I almost screwed up one of their back's one time when I tried to be fancy. Just enjoy yourself. Anxiety is a poison.

There is most assuredly a societal pressure put upon men to have a certain image and body type just as there is upon women. One of my ex's commented to me once on how it was sad that men felt they needed to be a certain way or a certain level of macho. Societal honeysuckle is garbage, ignore it, let loose with a good one who doesn't give a honeysuckle. And don't bother comparing yourself to porn star men because you're not getting paid to sleep with women who are getting paid (way ******* more than the men, double standards in all things) to sleep with you.
 
Porn isn't good for anything other than helping people jack off, literally the worst representation of what sex is, and romantic comedies are right behind it... lol

Nilla, do you think that heavily judging them will help them get out of the cycle? Do you even care if this is a worthwhile "tactic" or not? Or are you just trying to justify where this attitude comes from? Because, really, blaming someone's insecurity and fears as the reason why they can't be with anyone or even just shaming their concerns is the worst way to try and help someone.
I'm very far from telling anyone to shut up, that's really not my place, but you have to be even a little conscious of how this attitude turns discussions into toxic and unnecessary conflict.

Kaetic, I think the vibrator numbers are even worse, actually. Which surprises me, because those are really big penises, how is that not hurting....
 

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