Size Matters

[ojtwtn]

I don't think size matters.
A potential partner would rather look for success in a guy, way more than the size of his penis.
This superficiality also goes the other way. Men look for fertility signs, e.g. good looks/body, narrow hips, big breasts.

 

[Ghost77]

First: I'm a man, so probably not an expert. But FWIW:

If a woman isn't turned on by you then you can have the biggest cock in the world and it won't do a **** thing for her. I'm big and I've been there.
But when a woman is really really turned on you can make her cum with just about anything. Sometimes just the threat of something touching her will get her three quarters of the way there.
Also I had this one girlfriend who didn't enjoy it a much when I put the whole thing in. She had a way better time when I used just the end of it. I mean literally just the last two inches.

So my two cents is size doesn't matter much.

 

[Xpendable]

I knew a guy who beat cancer, so it's probably not a big deal either.

 

[ardour]

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[MikeyLE80]

Just thought I'd leave this here.

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So when girls are drunk they want guys that actually are as big as they claim they are? Except I'm a divergent that doesn't lie. I also don't claim I could be in porn lol.

You would think alcohol would have the opposite effect. I guess if their vision is blurry they might not know.

Maybe they're adjusting their stated expectations to exaggerations in size? Like an arms race?

 

[Xpendable]

Alcohol makes you honest.

 

[MikeyLE80]

Alcohol makes you honest.

Then they're either turning away everyone but the top %.5-.1 of men or are secretly very unhappy. Honestly I doubt many of them have seen a 10'' penis outside of porn. It's statistically unlikely.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/floyd-elliot/thats-not-normal-the-stat_b_4254842.html

The next video in the playlist is some "shirt stolen while talking" video. It's a stupid goofy bro video. Soon they'll want to give you terrible workout advice or sell you pills guaranteed to make you bigger and longer than a tree trunk.

 

[Xpendable]

Look at that jump from 5 to 6 inches and then 6 to 7. How can a few millimeters be so determinant?

 

[MikeyLE80]

Look at that jump from 5 to 6 inches and then 6 to 7. How can a few millimeters be so determinant?

If you're joking that almost went over my head. I had to look up how many mm in an inch. If not, well with the average being between 5 and 6 that by definition is going to be the most common by far. They don't have any for in between numbers so that is the result. The farther away you get from the average, by nature, the rarer it's going to be, when we're looking at 7 and 8.

 

[bleed_the_freak]

It's good to have 7

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[Unix]

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This kind of videos just make me even more hopeless that now, so, fake or not, i just try to avoid this honeysuckle

Women are clearly in position of "selecting" males for their physical and psychological traits, that is a fact. And as "beta" it sounds, many males are in disadvantage when it comes to physical traits that cannot be changed, and that are required to make a relationship works. Is fine, the world works like this, and we have to accept it.

Everyone here is like : ohhh, you are just a lazy little boy that don't know size doesn't matter and that don't know honeysuckle about women. But when you are in the 1% of the negative side of the spectrum no one can understand you. I ******* can't understand short people that use heels to seem more taller since i'm 1.90m, but i can understand very well someone who have small dick, since i have a very small one. 

I have read once that males with a small penis are usually unhappy for their whole life due to men an women making fun of them and general sense of inadequacy. Yeah, i got it, you shouldn't care about this things and live your life, but is almost like the people who says it are trolling you. How someone can just pass the fact that everyone is laughing at you(a friend of mine once got bodyshamed by a fat chick cause he has a small penis, and to this day i still hear people making fu of him for something happened 9 years ago). This is just no sense. You have to do it because you will end very bad if you wan't to survive but this is a problem that might lead to suicide in those who have serious self esteem problems. 

If you can't understand a situation don't talk about it. Said this, the world is a tough place, and you have to find the lifestyle that suits you. No one wanna be friend with you and no girl wan't you cause you are ugly/short/dumb or whatever? Try to embrace solitude, or find someone who likes you. The world will still make fun of you and you can't change that. This is what i have to do

 

[user 139760]

My theory is that men and women are exactly the same; they have absolutely, literally NO F***ING idea what they want. Which leads to about 20000 opinions varying wildly from one person to the next, with men accusing women, women accusing men of both being dishonest, ad vitam eternam.
My personal stance is they wholeheartedly deserve everything that'll come to them. I'll sit in the background and pretend to listen when their immaturity blows up in their respective faces.
Size does matter; the size of the egos. When dealing with some as big as those displayed by three quarters of the planet, best not get involved.

 

[TheRealCallie]

My theory is that men and women are exactly the same; they have absolutely, literally NO F***ING idea what they want. Which leads to about 20000 opinions varying wildly from one person to the next, with men accusing women, women accusing men of both being dishonest, ad vitam eternam.
My personal stance is they wholeheartedly deserve everything that'll come to them. I'll sit in the background and pretend to listen when their immaturity blows up in their respective faces.
Size does matter; the size of the egos. When dealing with some as big as those displayed by three quarters of the planet, best not get involved.

Pretty much. 

What makes no sense to me is that some men act like women don't have anything to deal with.  We are apparently perfect.  We don't have to worry about having big enough boobs or being skinny enough or wearing the right clothes or doing our makeup or this or that.  No, it's all about men and how horrible they have it and how women are so **** shallow.

 

[kamya]

We are apparently perfect.  We don't have to worry about having big enough boobs or being skinny enough or wearing the right clothes or doing our makeup or this or that. 

Wow. All things you can change and have complete control over. Must be tough.

 

[kaetic]

We are apparently perfect.  We don't have to worry about having big enough boobs or being skinny enough or wearing the right clothes or doing our makeup or this or that. 

Wow. All things you can change and have complete control over. Must be tough.

Breast size is controllable? Oh by surgery... I think some one else already mentioned there's a surgery for penis enhancement too. I'm sure neither is exactly safe over time and is going to cost loads of money... but hey... TOTALLY controllable.

Let's not turn this into an argument over who has it worse. You guys want to complain about your attributes, or lack thereof, go for it. Don't blame your insecurities on other people. It's not all of womankind's fault that you aren't happy with the body you have. Women have tried to be honest with how they feel about penis size on this thread, and you just assume we're all liars. And post videos that are obviously biased (because they want to make you feel like honeysuckle so they can sell you lessons on how to be a "real man") in order to prove a point. So it's kind of pointless to try and help.

You're going to think what you want no matter what we tell you.

 

[DarkSelene]

Truth is the males are not going to understand how women here feel because either they haven't had enough experience with women in general, or they're too cynical from bad experiences. Females here also won't be able to understand because of the same reasons...
Both sides turn insecurities into arguments because discussing a generalization is taken as personal offenses and anecdotal evidence doesn't count as a proper argument for a rebuttal of those generalizations. Of course, even if the conversation wasn't generalized it wouldn't matter because unless that person is attracted to you in particular, your opinion on the matter could be dismissed easily. 

Instead of having proper discussions of how this insecurity came to be, how it affects, what affects the most and how to effectively diminish the power they have over someone, everyone is bickering about who has it worse and how this is not "our fault". 

Congratulations on being Mr. Obvious, you contributed to nothing. Maybe if being nonchalant about everything wasn't so trendy, this place would be more productive. I'm also pointing out how little even the dudes in this thread care about what's really being discussed and just add to the drama, how's anyone supposed to feel safe enough to open up? You're either here for confirmation bias or confrontation...

 

[kamya]

We are apparently perfect.  We don't have to worry about having big enough boobs or being skinny enough or wearing the right clothes or doing our makeup or this or that. 

Wow. All things you can change and have complete control over. Must be tough.

Breast size is controllable? Oh by surgery... I think some one else already mentioned there's a surgery for penis enhancement too. I'm sure neither is exactly safe over time and is going to cost loads of money... but hey... TOTALLY controllable.

Let's not turn this into an argument over who has it worse. You guys want to complain about your attributes, or lack thereof, go for it. Don't blame your insecurities on other people. It's not all of womankind's fault that you aren't happy with the body you have. Women have tried to be honest with how they feel about penis size on this thread, and you just assume we're all liars. And post videos that are obviously biased (because they want to make you feel like honeysuckle so they can sell you lessons on how to be a "real man") in order to prove a point. So it's kind of pointless to try and help.

You're going to think what you want no matter what we tell you.

Depends on the woman imo. Size queens exist. Girls that can't handle anything over an above average size exist. Men that are less than an inch erect exist. Maybe imagine yourself in their shoes for a second? The average sized guy probably has nothing to worry about and might obsess too much.

It's dumb to tell people not to blame their physical insecurities on society when one of the first insults usually used to put a man down is almost always something to do with their "size".  Almost all of the common physical insecurities in both men and women come out of the standards imposed by society.

 

[Xpendable]

Look at that jump from 5 to 6 inches and then 6 to 7. How can a few millimeters be so determinant?

If you're joking that almost went over my head. I had to look up how many mm in an inch. If not, well with the average being between 5 and 6 that by definition is going to be the most common by far. They don't have any for in between numbers so that is the result. The farther away you get from the average, by nature, the rarer it's going to be, when we're looking at 7 and 8.

No joking. I have literally no idea how to divide inches into parts that sound logical to me. I use the metric system, so there's that.

 

[kaetic]

We are apparently perfect.  We don't have to worry about having big enough boobs or being skinny enough or wearing the right clothes or doing our makeup or this or that. 

Wow. All things you can change and have complete control over. Must be tough.

Breast size is controllable? Oh by surgery... I think some one else already mentioned there's a surgery for penis enhancement too. I'm sure neither is exactly safe over time and is going to cost loads of money... but hey... TOTALLY controllable.

Let's not turn this into an argument over who has it worse. You guys want to complain about your attributes, or lack thereof, go for it. Don't blame your insecurities on other people. It's not all of womankind's fault that you aren't happy with the body you have. Women have tried to be honest with how they feel about penis size on this thread, and you just assume we're all liars. And post videos that are obviously biased (because they want to make you feel like honeysuckle so they can sell you lessons on how to be a "real man") in order to prove a point. So it's kind of pointless to try and help.

You're going to think what you want no matter what we tell you.

Depends on the woman imo. Size queens exist. Girls that can't handle anything over an above average size exist. Men that are less than an inch erect exist. The average sized guy probably has nothing to worry about and might obsess too much.

It's dumb to tell people not to blame their physical insecurities on society when one of the first insults usually used to put a man down is almost always something to do with their "size".  Almost all of the common physical insecurities in both men and women come out of the standards imposed by society.

I didn't say anything about society as a whole. Of course that plays a part. All the information that comes at us on a daily basis that tells us we aren't good enough as we are: television, advertisements, youtube videos, etc. I said don't blame other people. (yes people make up society, you know what what I mean) You want to hate on the people who propagate this crap in order to capitalize off our insecurities, then I agree. You want to hate on men/women because you feel inadequate, that's different.

 

[ardour]

Breast size is controllable? Oh by surgery... I think some one else already mentioned there's a surgery for penis enhancement too. I'm sure neither is exactly safe over time and is going to cost loads of money... but hey... TOTALLY controllable.

Let's not turn this into an argument over who has it worse. You guys want to complain about your attributes, or lack thereof, go for it. Don't blame your insecurities on other people. It's not all of womankind's fault that you aren't happy with the body you have. Women have tried to be honest with how they feel about penis size on this thread, and you just assume we're all liars. And post videos that are obviously biased (because they want to make you feel like honeysuckle so they can sell you lessons on how to be a "real man") in order to prove a point. So it's kind of pointless to try and help.

You're going to think what you want no matter what we tell you.

Small breasts isn't a deal breaker like having a noticeably smaller-than-average 'endowment'. Height obviously is't a factor, weight is controllable for those who don't have thyroid problems, and there's push-back from the fat acceptance, Heath at Every Size movement, and feminism in general.

Both men and women have superficial or unreasonable standards, but one set of standard appear to be a lot more socially acceptable to express than the other, hence the video full of drunk 20 something gals talking like this with apparently no idea how it makes them look. (By the way I'm aware this is a sleazy dude trying to flog a PUA guide, that there would have to be some cherry picking going on.)