Sci-Fi said:
"Hi" is so impersonal. It's used as a friendly standard greeting you say to passerbys that you accidentally make eye contact with so you don't come off creepy. Small talk can be difficult to start off when you aren't sure what the other person may wan to discuss. The trick is looking for small ques. Like yesterday I had a customer that noticed my Batman travel mug, he asked if I was a fan and if I had seen the new movie. I kind of cut the small talk short though cause he came in near the end of the day and I wanted to leave on time. So his small talk failed that would have otherwise had me yacking to him for awhile. LOL
Since this is in the relationship section...Im assuming the OP
has a difficult time talking to people or hitting on chicks.
I used to work with people all day long...handing out money.hahaha
Giving people money...puts me in a good position.lol
They associate me with thier GOOD MOODS.
So you get used to making small talks, keeping happy face and relaxed when working with customers.
8 hours of it everyday for a yr...you get a little skillful or is second nature to you.
It helps if women comes in and flirt with you every so often
Ice breakers...
it dosnt have to be formal. Trying to make everything formal cuases
TENSIONS...negative tensions as if you have to behave a certain way
or walk on eggshells. Therefore taking you right out of RELAX or not
natural....MOODS.
We all know people push our fucken buttons in a negative ways.
Just gatta learn how to push positive buttons with people.lol
It's not rocket science.
The mug...
An excuse to start a conversation.
Sometimes I'll wear a wristband or a belt that's sort of hidden.
It's the kind of woman I want to attract. Women that are interested
in guys like me will notice such articals...It'll give them an excuse
to talk to me or something to bounce back on if a conversation
gose in the wrong direction.
It'll gives me an excuse to start a conversation...
tatoos, jewerlies, hair calour,...ect. An excuse for me to compliment
them. Tatoos and certain pieces of jewerlies have greater meanings
to some people. Sometimes PERSONAL meanings...espeacilly tatoos.
It also gives me an excuse to touch her.
At this junction..I'll know by her reponse when I touch her. How far
she'll let me...and at what pace she'll let me in.
Twice already within a month. Monique and Sarah kindda dress
to how I like women to dress sometimes....The belt with studs,
converse tennies, ripped or designer jeans, and a light blouse.
Bascailly a rocking down to earth girl next door heavy metal chick, When they
hang out with me. They dont always dress this way. They notice the way I dress.