Estreen
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Lately it seems like I just can't do much of anything right when it comes to socializing...even with people whom I normally feel comfortable around and whatnot. I hardly ever have anything of interest to say...to ANYONE really. v_v Most of the time I don't even know what to say to when people say certain things, or when I want to try to cheer someone up. I hate it, but no matter how hard I try to think, my mind comes up blank.
And maybe I don't reach out as often as I should to people maybe, or talk as often as I should. Maybe I'm seen as just selfish/self-absorbed, I dunno. All I know is that my friends and family are important to me and I'll always try to be there if/when they need me, but maybe that's not good enough.
I'm not good enough.
Maybe this is why I don't have that many friends, because of my under-developed social skills, my mediocre looks, and my presence that probably emanates with low self esteem/confidence.
I know I'm being terribly negative at the moment, and the only way to change or improve myself is to work at it, but I'm just in this sort've rut lately where I feel so inferior to everyone I know because I lack basic social interaction skills that I hadn't really realized that I was lacking in before.
I apologize for the rambling. I'm kinda just pouring it out as the thoughts form the words on the tip of my brain.
This is the only place I can really discuss this though, as no one in my real life will understand where I'm coming from...
v_v
And maybe I don't reach out as often as I should to people maybe, or talk as often as I should. Maybe I'm seen as just selfish/self-absorbed, I dunno. All I know is that my friends and family are important to me and I'll always try to be there if/when they need me, but maybe that's not good enough.
I'm not good enough.
Maybe this is why I don't have that many friends, because of my under-developed social skills, my mediocre looks, and my presence that probably emanates with low self esteem/confidence.
I know I'm being terribly negative at the moment, and the only way to change or improve myself is to work at it, but I'm just in this sort've rut lately where I feel so inferior to everyone I know because I lack basic social interaction skills that I hadn't really realized that I was lacking in before.
I apologize for the rambling. I'm kinda just pouring it out as the thoughts form the words on the tip of my brain.
This is the only place I can really discuss this though, as no one in my real life will understand where I'm coming from...
v_v