livingdeath
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I am desperately depressed and lonely. I go to bed each night praying I will not wake up. When I do awaken, it's to a living hell, a living nightmare and my daily goal is to survive, somehow, until I can go back to sleep.
This has been my daily life for years. I have seen psychiatrists, psychologists, therapists, been medicated and hospitalized. Nothing works, nothing helps. It's because I am in love with a woman who dumped me. That was 3 1/2 years ago. Yet it feels like it just happened this morning. The pain is excruciating and unbearable and I want to die because nothing else relieves the pain. And this doesn't change from moment to moment, from day to day, year after year. I think the only reason I don't kill myself is cowardice.
I am unbearably lonely, but I cannot talk to women because I have no confidence and am highly anxious and know I will be rejected. Also, my depression and anxiety put people off no matter how hard I try to act normal and smile and be pleasant and friendly. But that is all acting and it doesn't fool people for very long. That's why that woman dumped me; she soon saw that I was not what I at first seemed to be, that really, once you get to know me, I am worthless garbage, unlikeable, repulsive. I have always hated myself and I want the pain to stop but I am too cowardly to kill myself.
I am hurting desperately and no one wants to hear it. My therapists, one after another, have gotten sick of hearing it. So I am posting my agony on this internet site because I have nowhere else to turn, and maybe there is someone else out there who knows how this feels, but I doubt it because I don't think anyone is as fckd up and hopeless as I am or hurting so much for so long. Other depressed people I've communicated with up ups and downs. Some days are better than others. But I don't have that. I am hurting to the max all the time and I don't think anyone else is that bad. Help me.
This has been my daily life for years. I have seen psychiatrists, psychologists, therapists, been medicated and hospitalized. Nothing works, nothing helps. It's because I am in love with a woman who dumped me. That was 3 1/2 years ago. Yet it feels like it just happened this morning. The pain is excruciating and unbearable and I want to die because nothing else relieves the pain. And this doesn't change from moment to moment, from day to day, year after year. I think the only reason I don't kill myself is cowardice.
I am unbearably lonely, but I cannot talk to women because I have no confidence and am highly anxious and know I will be rejected. Also, my depression and anxiety put people off no matter how hard I try to act normal and smile and be pleasant and friendly. But that is all acting and it doesn't fool people for very long. That's why that woman dumped me; she soon saw that I was not what I at first seemed to be, that really, once you get to know me, I am worthless garbage, unlikeable, repulsive. I have always hated myself and I want the pain to stop but I am too cowardly to kill myself.
I am hurting desperately and no one wants to hear it. My therapists, one after another, have gotten sick of hearing it. So I am posting my agony on this internet site because I have nowhere else to turn, and maybe there is someone else out there who knows how this feels, but I doubt it because I don't think anyone is as fckd up and hopeless as I am or hurting so much for so long. Other depressed people I've communicated with up ups and downs. Some days are better than others. But I don't have that. I am hurting to the max all the time and I don't think anyone else is that bad. Help me.