Darkest Seraphim
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I'm here to do the selfish thing, and talk about myself for a while. Its around this time of the year i get this way. I feel the need to express myself, and i cant come out and tell anyone in words. I have to write it down or type it up and email someone. Its just too hard to say.
I've been struggling with my loneliness for 20 years. Trying to find a solution to my problems. Whenever i come across the solution i can never accept it. so i Keep on looking and searching for what could possibly be wrong with me that i have been afflicted with this horrible loneliness. The answer has always been change. To Change my habits.. to change my behavior .. to change myself for the "better". To be a social proactive confident responsible independant person. To be basically everyhting im not.
I am conflicted with this because. I dont think im such a bad person.. id ont think i have bad qualities. but I feel that those qualities will go away if i change who i am. People have told me that The Me that i am now wil remain if i change my social habits. but I really cannot see how that is true. Simply because ppl thgat do well socially are generally people that i dont see as being very good at all. Most qualities about sociall acceptable ppl I sees being characterisitics of an evil person. There are reasons i dont associate with those people, and they arent always that im super shy, mild mannered, or just not confident enough to approach them.
So, I try talkign to someone new everyday, being more proactive, putting myself out there. What is the point if you are constantly ashamed and wanna hide yourself again? I'm afaid to show myself to people... because i konw when they find out who i really am inside they will reject me. Maybe not outright , but there are many different kinds of rejection. What do Wierdos with actual principals do in a situation like this... All i can do is blame societies neglect of its fellow man, but what use is that either? Its all so confusing. And while im confused my life ticks away.
I've been struggling with my loneliness for 20 years. Trying to find a solution to my problems. Whenever i come across the solution i can never accept it. so i Keep on looking and searching for what could possibly be wrong with me that i have been afflicted with this horrible loneliness. The answer has always been change. To Change my habits.. to change my behavior .. to change myself for the "better". To be a social proactive confident responsible independant person. To be basically everyhting im not.
I am conflicted with this because. I dont think im such a bad person.. id ont think i have bad qualities. but I feel that those qualities will go away if i change who i am. People have told me that The Me that i am now wil remain if i change my social habits. but I really cannot see how that is true. Simply because ppl thgat do well socially are generally people that i dont see as being very good at all. Most qualities about sociall acceptable ppl I sees being characterisitics of an evil person. There are reasons i dont associate with those people, and they arent always that im super shy, mild mannered, or just not confident enough to approach them.
So, I try talkign to someone new everyday, being more proactive, putting myself out there. What is the point if you are constantly ashamed and wanna hide yourself again? I'm afaid to show myself to people... because i konw when they find out who i really am inside they will reject me. Maybe not outright , but there are many different kinds of rejection. What do Wierdos with actual principals do in a situation like this... All i can do is blame societies neglect of its fellow man, but what use is that either? Its all so confusing. And while im confused my life ticks away.