EveWasFramed
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AFrozenSoul said:I recognize my brothers' skills that I do not have and want. I see nothing wrong with their behavior to be honest.
OK then.
AFrozenSoul said:I recognize my brothers' skills that I do not have and want. I see nothing wrong with their behavior to be honest.
That is fine, I have accepted the fact that females have standards and no matter how low they are those standards are still higher than me. You have made your point. So please go away now.EveWasFramed said:OK then.Im sure no woman would ever choose to be with you, given the way you feel that they are nothing more than toys for your own personal amusement. Quite frankly, you disgust me.
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AFrozenSoul said:not that I really care who I hurt but those people can feel better because I am not dead.
AFrozenSoul said:Besides, how else am I supposed to quickly eliminate potential mates? I mean if there are 10 females in the room and I am not allowed to use appearance to decide which one to talk too. How do you decide which female to talk too? The only answer is to pick one at random. I am sure all the ladies on this forum will agree with me nothing is sexier than knowing a guy chose you randomly.
AFrozenSoul said:Some might not have an exact number. However, plenty of guys know that they have slept with 15 females for every one female I slept with.
AFrozenSoul said:No idea, all I know is that males who have lots of success with females wear it on their sleeves.
AFrozenSoul said:However my use of generalizations come from experience. Just like you know fire will burn you.
AFrozenSoul said:Simply being kind is not enough to make someone happy.
AFrozenSoul said:You have yet to provide me with a third option friend.
AFrozenSoul said:My views are not going to change until I am provided proof I am wrong.
EveWasFramed said:AFrozenSoul said:I recognize my brothers' skills that I do not have and want. I see nothing wrong with their behavior to be honest.
OK then.Im sure no woman would ever choose to be with you, given the way you feel that they are nothing more than toys for your own personal amusement. Quite frankly, you disgust me.
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ardour said:And he's right in that while kindness should be the default, it's not going to keep you warm at night. Being decent is not dating advice.
Badjedidude said:ardour said:And he's right in that while kindness should be the default, it's not going to keep you warm at night. Being decent is not dating advice.
I have nothing personal against AFS, but if you've been around to see his posts for a while, you see that they all tend to be the same. He doesn't show that he's interested in dating advice.
From his actions, I can only conclude that he's primarily interested in continually rolling in self-hate, bitterness, and applying extreme generalizations to both sexes.
Perhaps he comes here to vent. Fine, whatever.
But don't try to tell me that he's actively seeking advice and/or answers in order to improve his situation or his outlook on life.
The evidence suggests otherwise.
ardour said:Generalizations are just a way of trying to rationalise failure, give him a break.
ardour said:And the advice is always the same: be a good guy and don't expect anything in return. It's basically an admonition and very annoying to hear for someone who's desperate.
ardour said:While this attitude isn't a helpful one to hold there's evidence to back it up. Genealogical studies prove that polygamy was the norm in hunter gatherer societies, so we all have more female ancestors than male, women being adapted to find high status men attractive and ignore the rest as a general rule...
Batman55 said:So if you're a "low status man" the idea is to just give up, then--because that would spare you the pain of constant rejection?
EveWasFramed said:OK then.Im sure no woman would ever choose to be with you, given the way you feel that they are nothing more than toys for your own personal amusement. Quite frankly, you disgust me.
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Hey this is the conclusion I came tooBatman55 said:So if you're a "low status man" the idea is to just give up, then--because that would spare you the pain of constant rejection?
Yes yes, I get it, I do not blindly follow your advice and worship you for being willing to give it, therefore I am not seeking advice. I am sorry for questioning positions and casting doubt on the validity of advice you took so much time to give and that I should be grateful for even getting.Badjedidude said:But don't try to tell me that he's actively seeking advice and/or answers in order to improve his situation or his outlook on life.
The evidence suggests otherwise.
Yeah... I should get rid of that image.. but I don't because it is technically valid. My argument for that is that unlike your body, your self does not have a set plan. With my body I can say do X, Y, and Z for K Months and you should see results. Plus I can graph and track the progress I make. You do that with your self and you are seen as not actually having changed.Case said:AFrozenSoul... Read this image (that you have on your sig as of today,) but replace the word "body" with the word "self," and apply it to your attitude.
-_-... then I need a female to prove to me that they are better than that, and the circle continues.LeaningIntoTheMuse said:I always think it's ridiculous when people say that they are a genetic dead end.
You know what is a genetic dead end? Treating people like they are less than human. By treating women like they're pieces of meat, you're basically giving them reasons to reject you.
I understand how hard it is to find a girl, I really do. But women are more likely to take you seriously if you act like a man, and a man doesn't treat a woman just like a sex object.
Locke said:First off, let me make this clear: You and I are not friends. I have no interest in being friends with someone who talks about women like they're money grubbing shells and apparently envies his womanaizing ********* brother. So drop the "friend" routine. Okay?
Simple logic guy, not believing the world is against me gets the same thing as the opposite. So why keep my anger and frustration pent up?Locke said:Having said that, I was actually trying to help you, because you are not hopeless. You are full of self-pity, anger and hate, and you want to believe the world is against you. I am telling you that it will not work out well for you. Not that you're listening to a **** thing I'm trying to say, but we'll go through it all over again I guess.
Or those people can care about me to show me that caring is a good thing and makes everyone feel better. Either way guy, one of us has to invest and hope for a profitable outcome so why does it have to be me, eh?Locke said:If you don't care who you hurt, why should anyone care if they hurt you?! Change your crap attitude if you want to find a woman who will care about you.
I am just a firm believer that being an attractive mate does not instantly make you garbage guy. I know that we like to believe that outer beauty means nothing. Truth is just as many unappealing mates are as trashy as appealing ones.Locke said:Fine, be as shallow as you're pretending everyone else is. You'll stay alone. Or.....change your crap attitude if you want to find a woman who will care about you.
Online yes I agree I do wear it on my sleeves. In real life when I am around clients I fake being pleasent and confident because when an expert doesn't talk confidently it has bad consequeces. In real life if I am being social I keep to myself. I make sure I am out of the way and emotionless.Locke said:You wear your low self-esteem and hate like it's a badge, something to be proud of. Change your crap attitude if you want to find a woman who will care about you.
My experiences are all I have. Would you tell a recovering drug addict that drugs are not so bad and then get mad at them when they call BS?Locke said:If you are basing your generalizations off of your own limited experience, that makes them even more ridiculous.
Well guy, apparently you did not read about how I did that for a year. Well that or you do not believe me one of the two. So which one is it guy?Locke said:Again, we're not friends. Have you noticed how I told you to "Drop the crap attitude if you want to find a woman who cares about you." several times? It's what I've been trying to tell you this entire time. You don't need a third option. Just drop the hate for yourself and others, and you'll be happier.
Well guy, if you REALLY think I act like this in real life. In real life I am... I guess the term would be neutral. I do my best not to smile or frown or be emotional when I am out in public. I am simply present, I do my best to keep my hatred and anger to myself. It is true that I will lash out should someone bother me while I am humoring the family with family time. However, otherwise I am just that weirdo sitting in the corner playing is 3DS/DSi/Vita. Lucky for me being a male who is alone playing video games in public is an instant turn off for pretty much everyone. I do not have to say or do anything. So when my family forces me to go out with them, it is the only way to get them to quit bitching about how I never see them. I make sure that I stay out of the way and am quiet while they are present and that is all I do. Not that I expect you to believe me guyLocke said:I'm not nice enough to use a smiley while saying this, but you disgust me aswell, AFrozenSoul. I find everything I know about you to be just......terrible. Now, before you get all offended about that, think about it: If you disgust both Eve and me, how many other people find you disgusting? Keep in mind that we have no idea what you look like. It's your attitude that's disgusting. If you ever want to attract anyone, change it.
And I'm through trying to dig you out of the pit of anger, hate and self-pity you've buried yourself in. You obviously don't care, so I'm just wasting my time.
Good luck, you'll need it.
a lonely person said:dude, just buy the girls a drink
Locke said:You would rather be a terrible person. .
ardour said:Locke said:You would rather be a terrible person. .
A terrible person does terrible things. At most he has a terrible attitude. Please.
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