The crazy thing about loneliness is that you can feel lonely even when you're WITH people.
I hang out with friends a lot, but everyone has their own homes and I happen to live alone. I've met a lot of girls and have dated some of them, but I've only really truly connected with very few people I've come across. And sometimes I feel like I won't ever meet another person I connect that deeply with. It's in those peoples' company I don't feel as alone. I like being by myself sometimes, I admit that, but it kind of hurts that I don't have anyone to be with or as cheesy as it seems to really cuddle with.
It can be an especially supreme loneliness when you're with someone you don't want to be with or don't connect with at all. I'm a friendly person though, so I wouldn't really hint at how lonely I feel sometimes. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
There are very few moments that I'm okay with my kind of loneliness. I'm not sure why it has to be so hard. The few people I connect with either are really far away or don't talk to me anymore. I've tried to not be sad for the past few days, but it just really hits me how alone I am. I like getting a chance to spend time with someone I care deeply about and making them happy for a period of time. I feel like I've met some really fantastic people, but these days they seem truly few and far between.
Last night I met my friend's gf and he had me drive her back to his house while he talked to the owner of this bar. The more we talked the more I began to like her and then I found that I might have feelings for her. I killed those feelings, pretty much, because I don't want to be a bad friend.
It just seems like it's easy for everyone else to find someone special. I feel like I already met that person, or people, and it's very unlikely it'll happen again. Just makes me sad
Sorry for the length, I've been thinking about all of this for a few days and last night just brought it to the forefront. Thanks for reading.
I hang out with friends a lot, but everyone has their own homes and I happen to live alone. I've met a lot of girls and have dated some of them, but I've only really truly connected with very few people I've come across. And sometimes I feel like I won't ever meet another person I connect that deeply with. It's in those peoples' company I don't feel as alone. I like being by myself sometimes, I admit that, but it kind of hurts that I don't have anyone to be with or as cheesy as it seems to really cuddle with.
It can be an especially supreme loneliness when you're with someone you don't want to be with or don't connect with at all. I'm a friendly person though, so I wouldn't really hint at how lonely I feel sometimes. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
There are very few moments that I'm okay with my kind of loneliness. I'm not sure why it has to be so hard. The few people I connect with either are really far away or don't talk to me anymore. I've tried to not be sad for the past few days, but it just really hits me how alone I am. I like getting a chance to spend time with someone I care deeply about and making them happy for a period of time. I feel like I've met some really fantastic people, but these days they seem truly few and far between.
Last night I met my friend's gf and he had me drive her back to his house while he talked to the owner of this bar. The more we talked the more I began to like her and then I found that I might have feelings for her. I killed those feelings, pretty much, because I don't want to be a bad friend.
It just seems like it's easy for everyone else to find someone special. I feel like I already met that person, or people, and it's very unlikely it'll happen again. Just makes me sad
Sorry for the length, I've been thinking about all of this for a few days and last night just brought it to the forefront. Thanks for reading.